End of 2016

It's getting harder and harder to blog due to me being so busy, but I've told myself that I will do it no matter what. Even if I don't do as many a year, I still plan on doing it.

So I spent the end of my summer and most of my fall in the land down under and Asia and had a fantastic and lucrative time! I am now officially an aunt and I released a book.
However there's still more to do. I'm certainly striving to stay on track and positive but I have my days. I have some old wanna be sugar daddies playing stupid games but I'm definitely doing a clean sweep this year. Not sure if I'm going to change my number or just block them. We'll see how it goes.
I did have a really generous client in Oz and I'm working on him spending some more. It's funny because clients seem to be doing a whole lot better in the spoiling department than the so called SD's.
I've been doing a lot of studying of real estate investing and plan on acquiring investment properties again starting in 2017.  I swear I have so many goals but I'm setting myself up financially no matter what. It would be nice if I have a steady mentor/sd to help but I'm not going to let that hinder me. I will keep blazing through until someone stops me in my tracks like Richard did.
It's funny, I feel like I'm practically 100% back to my ruthless independent self before I met Richard. I've decided that I am going to SAVE MYSELF; not like I was waiting on anyone but I did have more patience, and now that has ran out.
I feel like I will get what I need in a man by being this way anyway, that's how I met Richard. I'm tired of being told by SD's to compromise because it hasn't worked long-term and that's the only way I think.

Anyway, here's a big THANK YOU for all the successes in 2016 and a big welcome to 2017 and more successes it brings.

Here here...

Road Trip Conclusion

My road trip proved to be a successful one and I am thrilled.  Everything seems to be on the right track for me financially. I hope this year keeps going like this because it would mean that I will be buying my house sooner and paying off all of my debt. Goals baby!

I met an older gentleman on the 2nd day of my tour that practically accounted for half of my entire earnings! Peculiar but nice guy that wanted to drink my pee and paid me $100 for every 5oz and you bet I made quite a bit because I do pee a lot.  So I ended up making a few thousand bucks in addition to my fee for my time.  He also liked nipple play so I had some nice clamps to bring him to ecstasy.
The next day he took me shopping and had me fill up 2 sports water bottles with my pee so he could have them with his sandwich for lunch.  He didn't quite finish them but he paid me for the amount I brought plus I did some damage shopping at my favorite designer stores.  I definitely hope I see him again because he's probably one of the easiest and most generous clients I've had.

The rest of the tour was pretty normal and I discovered a few hidden gems so it was also great market research.  We did a few threesomes and I did my fair share of fucking guys in the ass with my strap on, lol. But for the most part, the men were boring.  I guess they were just happy to be with two beautiful women that they didn't expect to do much. The probably didn't know how.
I am now at home, at my mom's relaxing before I head back on the road again. Headed overseas this time (Europe & the Middle East) ;-)

Love, Light, and Prosperity!

New Year! 2016

January has already come and gone and let me just say that my new year started off with a bang!
I ended up in Tel Aviv on New Year's day working a private plane gig.

Then I went to go visit Benjamin and linked up with a potential (Richard).  He turned out to be just another needy energy sucker who was "too scared" to invest in the relationship because he had been burned in the past.  I did get my beats wireless headphones and Chanel perfume that I wanted from him plus he had a car take me to the airport.  But I had to cut my ties because I just can't be with a man that isn't generous.  I'm sure he will be back, but for now I have bigger fish to fry!

I'm winding down from a 3 week winter tour in the North East and it has been quite lucrative.  Then in a couple of weeks I'm embarking on a road trip tour with another escort colleague.  That should be fun, lol.

All in all, I am setting goals and excited to keep checking every one of them off my list.  The world is my oyster.  Stay tuned...

Holiday Season 2015

So much has happened and I have been too busy to post but here I am.  I am back in the Big Apple, surprise surprise ;-)
I also launched my full dominatrix persona and website and had my first overnight booking tonight! I was concerned that I would be bored but I handled it like a champ.  I did my research on certain things to brush up on my demeanor and my client was all too happy. Working class guy with a bit of a kinky side.
I can't wait to have the billionaire sub, now that would be some fun!
We did a few things including strap on play, nipple play, spanking, boot/feet worship, etc, which he seemed to like a lot.  All in all, I would say it went great. He is already looking to book me again.
I've been getting quite a few dominatrix booking enquiries so I'm pretty happy I branched out to the dark side.
Of course I'm also busy on the escort side and even went on a couple of Tinder dates which reminded me why men pay me to spend time with them, lol.  These men are all clients in my book because they act just like them.  Very needy and too much drama.  I rather to just have someone pay me for my time.

I am working on a guy (as a sugar daddy) I met a few months ago though.  He claims he likes me a lot and wants to travel the world with me.  But let's see where he puts his money.  So far he's shown the signs of generosity but I didn't even try before.  Now I'm going to put him to the test.

Merry Christmas!

Wind down of Summer 2015

I'm currently on a NE tour this summer and I am quickly realizing that these parts are much better in the winter/spring, yikes! I guess I will just have to brave the cold and come here a few times in the year.

In any case, I have decided to extend my nomad life by one more year before moving to California.  I'm loving it way too much and I am thankful to be able to be in the position to do so.  I'm chatting with some bloke off MM now and as usual he's all about the intimacy and has not yet inquired about my life and what I want.  Typical…oh well, we will see how it goes. I might use him to fund some trips for me.

Not much has happened this summer, just more discovery of where to tour in the summer.  This has definitely been a learning experience and I am glad for it because it makes my touring that much more efficient.

I went out last night to the bar at the Four Seasons, met a gentleman who definitely gave me a "client vibe", I gave him my number and he hasn't called so I know he's definitely a client.  I suppose I could have prepositioned him (because he was smitten by me) but I'm all about "Time & Place". I drank a lot so today has been sluggish, lol.  I already ate lunch and I think I will take a nap now.

Till next time...

Summer in the Big Apple 2015!!!

So I made it to the Big Apple for one month this summer.  So much has happened this year and I haven't had time to blog, but I'm still happily being a nomad and traveling the world.  I did go to Monaco with the escort I met last halloween and she turned to be a selfish person so I had to let her go. I did have a blast there though, my birthday there was amazing! I also went to Paris for the 1st time for just 2 nights but still had a blast.  We met a guy in Monaco that invited us to his friend's mega yacht and tried to impress me with it.  Of course I wasn't impressed and he got mad, lol.  I think I'm going to just focus on ME for a WHILE and let men be "over there".  When the right one comes along, I will know.  I don't want  to become jaded and end up losing my excitement about great guys.

I will be going back to the middle east soon with a new friend I just made.  She is also from Ethiopia like me and we seem to have a lot in common.  Let's hope she's not selfish and a good person because it would be nice to travel with someone on the same page as I am.
I have to say that this experience and been lesson filled and I have NO regrets.  I can't wait to get to the land down under and also get started in Hollywood baby!!!
I will fill you in as time goes on, because I have so many goals and I am enjoying the journey.
As of right now, I don't have any sugar daddies which has been very cool in a way.  I love making my own money and not having to ask anyone for anything.  I will hold out for the BIG fish which I know is right around the corner.

I am loving the Big Apple, it has been lucrative and fun-filled.

Till next time...

Spring Awakening!!! 2015

Wow! Time has flown! I've been busy touring the U.S for this first quarter and let me just say that I'm glad I made this decision to travel for at least a year :-)
I spent a month in LA and made the decision that I will be moving there at some point next year to fully pursue my acting career, but first I must explore and enjoy the US and Europe this year.
I'm currently in the Northeast where I am doing very well. I have definitely established myself with this new persona, although it is funny that people from my past still recognize me even though I blur my face on all my ads.  I guess it is somewhat flattering that I still look the same after a 7-year hiatus.

I plan on spending a month in New York this summer and I am quite looking forward to that. I will be spending my birthday in Monaco with a the nice escort I met last halloween, whose birthday happens to be one day before mine! lol. Of course I will spend time in London as usual and I'm checking out switzerland and maybe Paris.  I also want to check out Italy since my cousin is stationed out there in the navy.

I will also be spending some time with my brother as he is building his first home which I will be helping decorate.  I might spend some time in the south as well to see if there's any money to be made. My BDSM website is almost complete and I am eager to explore that world as well!

All in all, I am happy to report that life is going splendidly and I am all too thankful!

Till next time….

SMOOCHES!

Happy New Year!!! 2015

2015 is here and I am excited!!! What a whirlwind the end of 2014 was! I rang in the new year in the UAE.  Before that, I was in London, Oslo, & Berlin.  I had such a great time, linking up with old friends and making new ones.  I did very well on this London trip, so it's safe to say that London will be a permanent city on my roster ;-) I have a lot of goals to accomplish this year and I am so ready!!! Still on my world tour but back in the States for a few months, then I'm off overseas again. Will be spending a good part of the summer in Europe.  I plan on linking up with Madame as she supposedly has clients in all the hot spots: London, Cannes, St. Tropez, Monaco, etc.

On another note, I'm back in my paradise but briefly.  Just saw the regular of mine with the weird fetish for bright make up and clothes.  It's still so funny to me that he loves bright eye shadows and lipstick.  So much so that he makes me re-apply after it wears off multiple times during the session.  It is quite bizarre but hey I'll take the money. I am going to spend time finishing up my BDSM website in the next few weeks so that I can really tap into that world.

I'm off to the west coast this weekend for a little while. Got a few prospects on SA…even one bloke wanting a date to the Oscars..keep you posted.

xoxo

Demand what you want!

I went out on 2 sugar daddy dates in the same day a couple of days ago.  One for lunch, another for dinner and I was sitting there on both dates, it dawned on me that it is time to stop compromising.  These men were sitting there astonished that they "struck gold" with me.  The whole time was filled with them complimenting me and thanking me for being there.  They were clearing getting something out of the first meeting and I wasn't.  A "free meal" isn't worth it to me.
I tried it the "nice" way and I really haven't gotten the results I want.  The reason why successful people are successful is because they go after what they want full force and never take "no" for an answer, nor do they compromise their goals.  It's good to be flexible in your approach, but you should never change your true goals and desires to match the need of someone else, thinking that it will get you what you want.
The way I see it, if you two are not on the same page MOVE ON IMMEDIATELY. No sense in wasting time with someone who is not willing to give you what you want.  There are plenty of "fish" out there to feel trapped with "one".  It will never be fair if he gets everything he wants and you only get a little bit.  Neither of you will be happy.

I was chatting with some bloke from Ashley Madison today who told me he was ready to be my sugar daddy.  He asked me what I wanted per month and I told him $5,000 just to see where his head was.  He goes on about how that is a lot of money and I better be worth it. That he's not some fat slob, and that girls are lining up to be with him, so I better be negotiable.  I told him $5,000 is not a lot of money and that I wasn't willing to negotiate and ended with a  "good luck with your search".  Ouch! He probably didn't see that one coming.  This is why I never go for guys who are vain.  They are obviously OLD but spend so much time on their looks (which means NO MONEY) and they are disillusioned to thinking girls want them for their looks.  Yeah, desperate girls! When a guy complains right off the bat about what your are asking for being too much, RUN!!! It means that you guys are not on the same page and no amount of compromise will change that.
I'm done being patient with people and going back to my roots of being a bitch and demanding what I want.  That's how I met Richard, so why not???

In any case, of course the two OLD men I went on SD dates with (they lied about their age, lol) would LOVE to see me again, but I have decided that if it doesn't add value to my life, i.e. financial generosity, I will NOT MAKE TIME FOR IT.

I'm excited to be headed to Europe next week…xoxo

Old Men and their fetishes...

I decided to go out in Palm Beach Island last night and my first stop was the very popular Buccan.  I went to the bar as soon as I walked in and asked for a wine list.  To my surprise, and older man approached me as asked "so what are you going to have?". I was quite taken back as most men are afraid to approach me, especially the older ones.  This guy was quite the gentleman.  An attorney who lived on the island and was buying me drinks? I decided to explore further.  Of course he was reveling in my upbeat energy while adding nothing back.  I've noticed that men of means tend to be a lot more upbeat, especially when they meet a woman…I started to have my doubts.  He suggested we get out of there and go to HMF at the breakers which was quieter (I think he just didn't want me to get snatched up by anyone else, lol) and I obliged because I wanted to see what he drove.  Alas it was a Ford Explorer! I gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe he was the "green" type.  He ordered a bottle of champagne at the breakers which got me thinking he might be ok.  Then when the bottle was empty, he suggested that we go back to his place for some more. I went along because I wanted to see what his house looked like so that I could make a better judgement call about him.  Alas, he house was small and old! Infact, he just sold it to someone that is planning on tearing it down while he moves AWAY from the island to a townhouse in a not so great area.  Plus it was poorly decorate and looked cheap on the inside. That was it for me.  He has some money, but he's not fun enough for me to not care that he doesn't have enough money.  I told him I had to leave right away and he was wondering why the rush.  I told him because it was late, but really I had made my judgement call.  He tried to steal a kiss but of course he knows he has to earn that. He must have been thinking he hit the jackpot and I would sleep with him, ha! I thought maybe I should have propositioned him, but I just wasn't feeling it. I went out downtown and hung out with some friends till late.
Of course he's been texting me since this morning trying to hang out tonight and tomorrow but I just can't get myself to waste my precious time and energy with this old man who will probably take ages to be worked on.  Perhaps if I still lived here, I would have put him on my roster but I don't, so I won't.  We will see.

On a side note, I got a call from my BDSM advert.  An older man with foot fetish.  He basically worshipped my feet and ass and we finished him off with a foot job.  Quick and easy! I much rather have a straight forward approach, but I know I have to play the game in order to score my BIG fish!

Here's to playing the game to WIN!

Needy clients

Today I had two of my regulars that are needy back to back! Ugh, these are the guys you can only take in doses.  They are nice people but just too needy.
The first guy kept telling me he loved me and how beautiful I am, of course I smile and say thank you, but there's only so many times one can say thank you! He basically does this the whole session.

The second guy is definitely the weird one.  He says he wants a dominatrix but obviously can't handle it because he also wants a girlfriend experience.  I told him he CANNOT mix the two.  He likes me wearing bright color clothing and make up! I mean he had me reapply lip gloss a million times and even had me change the colors.  I mean you would think he was a kid in a candy store the way he kept asking for different colors.  He also wanted me to spit in his mouth and pinch/play with his nipples, he also wanted to rub oil on me to make me "shiny", then he wanted me to talk "dirty"….this type of session gets old after a while, lol. Eventually I just tell him NO.  Then when the time is up, he wants to pay for more time! Of course I say ok, but I told him just a little longer because I was tired, this was a late night session.

I have to say that my trip back to paradise has been very lucrative.  I cannot complain…off to bed now.

xoxo...

The life of a nomad

So I left Vegas and I'm back in Paradise for a little bit and I just saw a client.  Things seem to be busier (much busier than when I lived here full-time), one client even brought me some presents and Godiva chocolate yesterday.  Things are great! Although it had me thinking where the hell these clients were when I actually lived here, lol.  I guess the saying is true that people miss you when you are not readily available.
I actually met some girls who are escorts as well.  They were actually cool, normal people unlike some of the flakes and shady girls (both squares and escorts) I've met.  It was refreshing to meet nice fun girls.  We actually hung out in Vegas and since I've been back, I've gone out again with one of them. It definitely is great to find someone on the same page as you. She understands how to read a guy and knows that if it's not about the money, there will be no interest.  You would be surprised how hard it is to explain this to a square girl, lol.
I went out with a square girlfriend last night and it was great catching up. She's actually one of the squares that gets the sugar baby lifestyle, but of course I don't tell her all of my business.
I have to say that being "homeless" is definitely working out for me.  It's so great to just pick up and go without having to worry about tending to your "home affairs".  I love it! I can't wait for more adventures…I'm headed to London, Germany, & Norway soon.

I will try to blog more about my adventures…life just gets so busy and fun sometimes that I forget to blog.  I will do better.

Till next time...

World Tour/World Domination

So I did it! I started my travels almost a month ago and now I've made it to Vegas! Staying for a month. Also decided to roll out my BDSM persona. Had my first client which was pretty standard I suppose. Ass worship, me spitting in his mouth, flogging, getting him on all fours and entering him with my strap-on, and for the finale, force feeding him his own semen.

I am excited about this new side/addition to my business. It's great to keep things versatile. I plan on also keeping up with my mainstream endeavors. I'm Juggling a few things and I am very happy doing so.

A regular of mine flew my back to paradise for the weekend but then decided he didn't want to keep (and pay) me for the initial 2 days we agreed upon, but just 1 night. When regulars take advantage, they get cut off! I did have some errands I needed to run so it wasn't a waste of time. I still made all profit, I was just expecting to make more.

I return back to vegas in a day and plan on kicking it into high gear. I also have a potential SD in the works, a professor. Everything is going smoothly. I don't regret taking this time to travel at all😋

Can't wait to share more adventures from my travels, xoxo.

WrestleMania!!!

So I'm touring up north this week and I just wrapped up a wrestling session with a regular client of mine…I'm definitely going to tap into this "fetish" market.  It seems too easy to not capitalize on it.
Afterwards we talked about Joan River's passing today…so sad.  I loved her wit and lack of a filter.  She was definitely one of the greats.  Death seems to be coming to the forefront for me.  I lost a family member last year and now people that I admire are dropping left and right.  I thinks this only means to remind me that LIFE IS SHORT.
My year long (maybe more???) travel is definitely the right thing for me right now.  It's been validated a thousand times.  I'm going to live life to the fullest and pursue my dreams.  We're only young once.  Everything is as it should be.  I am happy….10 more days!!!

Split Personality or Alcoholic???

One of the reasons Richard and I didn't work out is because he was an alcoholic. Now I love a nice cocktail just as much as the next guy, but when Richard drank in excess he turned into a wicked and verbally abusive person. Luckily I'm not a weak woman or he would have broken me. I could very much give back what he dished out and then some, but why would I want to be around that? I rather be with a fun loving and charming gentleman, but I digress.

So last night I decided to be social and go out clubbing with some acquaintances. What I thought was gonna be a chill night turned into a whirl wind of champagne and shots that lasted into 7:30 this morning! I had an appointment with one of my regulars in the late afternoon but it was a struggle to get out of bed because I was HUNGOVER! I was a little late but made it to him in one piece. This guy owns a restaurant in one of the popular locations in town. He also has a foot fetish and he likes for my toenails to be orange. We played and then he wanted to take me to dinner at his restaurant. We had a great time and he was really getting off on showing me off...typical men. He even asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. I told him he would have to pay me of course which he was ok with. Most men always try to sell you on the trip being your pay, ha!

Things however took a turn as he got drunker. I noticed he was needy and wanted me to "ooh and ah" over his stories and  I could see he was getting frustrated. He's one of those guys that says "you decide", but turns around and makes the decision anyway. I wasn't charging him for my time because he was pretty cool (or so I thought lol), and I wished I had at the end of the evening.  On our way back to his house from dinner, he asked me a question and I gave him a sort of smart ass answer as I normally would and he lost it! He started some bullshit argument, got really angry and even started cursing at me. At that point I knew it was time to go. I personally think he was upset because I didn't want to spend the night (without getting paid) and this was his way of lashing out. I tried to grab my take out on my way out the door, but he wouldn't let me. He really wanted a fight. He even tried to capture my "attitude" on his camera phone, but when he watches it in the morning, he will see that he ended up capturing himself being a complete jackass.

I left immediately and of course, I get a text from him asking me to come back and grab my food. There was no way in the hell I was going back there. He was incoherent and out of his fucking mind. I even saw hints of how he could be an abusive person if someone really pushed him. It reminded me of a huge fight Richard and I had in Turks & Caicos and it really turned me off and I got the hell out of there; the same thing I did with Richard. 

Mr. bi-polar (his new nickname) even said that he still wanted to take me to the Bahamas, ha! I don't know that I want to put myself in that situation with me being in a foreign country with a mean drunk!

I told him we should get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow. No way José🚫

He's going to have to do some serious convincing to get me to even consider going to the Bahamas with him.

A bouquet of flowers

So I get a call from my front desk today telling me that I had a flower delivery....who sent it you ask? My client from the "threesome gone wrong". Inside was a note apologizing for wasting my time and thanking me for being understanding. Cute, but I would have much rather prefered cash. Well I guess he's hooked because he said he would be seeing me soon. Something tells me it's gonna be before the week runs out, lol. I texted him to thank him for being sweet and thoughtful. I don't know why men are so infatuated with sex, but it's definitely to the advantage of women everywhere.
I spent some time in the ocean today. It was much needed and very relaxing. I live on the beach but don't spend much time enjoying it. I do run on the beach though so I do enjoy the view very often. I will make it a point to spend my last days in paradise enjoying it before I embark on my "World Tour". The time is drawing near.
I have a potential client tomorrow....let's hope it pans out. Nite all

Threesome Gone Wrong

Well today turned out to be sort of a busy day for me, which is rare in my home base.
A regular of mine asked me if I would do a threesome with him and his girlfriend and of course I said yes.  He told me he would ask her and get back to me.  Shortly after, he lets me know that it is a "go".  We set up a time and I proceeded to get ready. He even told me to dress very well and sexy (which I already knew to do).
They arrive and I greet them happily at the door.  Right away I sensed something was off because the girlfriend was not happy.  I sat them down and offered them water.  Then after a moment of awkward looks, I asked how everyone was doing and if everything was ok, to which the girlfriend said "no".  Whoops! RED FLAG!
She said she had told him she wasn't into it and that she would just wait if he wanted to still go ahead with me.  I knew better than to even let that happen.  I complimented her, telling her she was beautiful and that we didn't have to do anything if she wasn't comfortable.  To which she mentioned "yeah apparently I'm not enough for him". Yikes! I hope he didn't think I was going to convince her against her will!
I even offered up some wine, to which she declined.  Then I knew for sure NOTHING was happening.  It was very awkward, and my regular sat there looking puzzled and gulping his water.  They eventually left.  I texted right away letting him have it for not checking with his girlfriend first and wasting my time.  He apologized profusely citing that he was very excited and everything happened so fast.  I told him never to EVER do that again without making sure his significant other was ok with it.
I've never done a threesome where the woman wasn't on board.  Everyone knows the woman runs the show in these situations, but my client apparently was too stupid to figure it out.  He made it seem like they had done it before but from the looks of the girlfriend, they certainly hadn't.  Maybe they went to a swinger's club, but it didn't look like they had any experience with threesomes.

In any case, luckily I had another client coming by shortly after.  New client, very excited and paranoid at the same time.  It was very quick and easy and he left very happy.
Nothing shocks me anymore...men are so obsessed with sex, it's quite comical actually.  I just need to find an extremely wealthy one that's obsessed with me! I know it will happen soon...I'm just going to focus on my other goals while I wait.

I learned a new editing technique on photoshop that I'm quite happy about.  I'll definitely save some money on having someone else do it for me ;-)

On a different note, I was chatting with this bloke from Seeking Arrangement last night, and the dumb ass thought I would drive almost 45 minutes at 1am to meet him for sex if he paid me, ha! Chances are if he wasn't calling an escort, it's because he couldn't afford one.  Which makes him a cheap ass! Things like that will never end well.  Last minute, nothing discussed, plus he could be the next craigslist killer, lol.  I told him no and went to bed.  These guys  think that lying about their net worth will make girls do ANYTHING.  I wasn't born yesterday.  Maybe it works on some other girls, but at this point in my life I can smell money a mile away.  I know what it talks and acts like; and this guy was talking & acting like a cheap pervert.  Maybe on a slight chance I was wrong, but even if I was I wouldn't want a creep like that anyway.  NEXT!!!

Miami Swim Week 2014

Well, I just wrapped up with a new client, Russian New Yorker who loves to talk dirty in bed.  I don't know what it is about this particular act, but I feel it sounds so fake, especially if you don't know the person, but hey I'm here to please.
I'm now going over the pictures from my super hot fetish/glamour shoot from a couple of days ago.  This is the hard part.  Trying to decide with picture you want and which ones you wish to delete; there are probably a thousand photos!  It's a process in itself but I'm glad I did it.
I ordered some delivery, it's gonna be a "stay in" kind of a night as it is non-stop thunderstorms today.  I'm looking forward to attending some swim week events.  It was fabulous last year so I'm sure it will be the same this year...ciao

I wasn't born yesterday...

So this guy I met while I stripped breifly in Palm Beach a few years ago,  just took me out to dinner tonight. He's cheap even though he has money, but I contacted him all the same because it is not as busy in this new city (I won't be coming here again), and I figured I could pry some money out of him and get a nice meal. It still has been a lucrative trip though. He thinks I'm here working a private jet trip;  I love the alibi my mainstream work gives me😜
Anyways, when I first met this one, it was quite a feat to let this him know that he had to spoil me even though we met in a strip club and I was a stripper! (It's still a silly song and dance we do and I avoid it at all costs, but since I'm in his city, I figured I might as well). I think he has a different definition of what "spoiling" means (he's 61); but I never let men off the hook, especially older men, because they should know better.
In anycase we had a very nice dinner and he said he wanted to take me shopping but I told him I'd rather have the cash. He said he didn't have any cash on him and would take care of me tomorrow, but he understood if I wanted to wait. I told him I would wait. I've already been down this road before where I assumed he would take care of me and he didn't. So much so that I cursed him out he seriously thought I hated him, lol.
As soon as I said I would wait, he left immediately. He went from talking about how he wanted to make love to me and kiss me, to getting the hell out of my hotel room, lol.
I wasn't born yesterday; he doesn't go to Neiman Marcus asking for credit and he sure as hell will not do that with me! I sent him a text right after thanking him for dinner and saying that I looked forward to seeing him tomorrow. There's a 50/50 chance he will bail, but I could care less. Men think they can use us for our goods and then get upset when we want something in return, ha! It doesn't phase me, I get what I can out of you and toss you aside. I'm only nice to deserving men.
I have a few appointments tomorrow and then I'm headed back home to paradise. Time for bed💤

You make me laugh...

Well this trip up north has been very lucrative...I'm so glad I came here.  I'm trying out a new city nearby that I've gotten several requests to visit.  Let's hope it's as good as this trip.  And of course, Murphy's law, while I've been away, I've gotten requests for private jet trips as well as my escort services back home.  It never fails....but at least I'm doing other "mainstream" things besides adult work.  This is absolutely necessary to stay balanced.

I linked up with a "sort of" Sugar Daddy I met through a friend.  Every time we get together, we grab dinner, play, and he gives me money.  Today though at dinner, he announced that he is now dating someone (why the fuck did you want to go out with me? I thought). I told him he could have easily texted me that, but he claimed he really wanted to get together and "catch up"....I was smelling bullshit. In any case, we had a nice dinner and then he decided he wanted to grab something at Wolford since our restaurant was in the mall.  I thought it was for his girlfriend, but it turned out that it was for me.  It definitely reminded me of Richard because he was the only one who knew quality and designer fashion.  I smiled cheekily to myself.
It was kind of a forced shopping spree because he never asked me what I wanted; he picked the store and told me to pick out something, so I just picked whatever I saw there that I thought was cute because I didn't feel like arguing.  He kept the receipt, I guess to make sure I didn't return it, lol.  I thanked him for the gift but I really didn't see where this was going.  I would have been just as happy with the cash.  He drove me back to my hotel and told me he wanted to see me in the outfit.  I thought, "great! he still wants to play", so I asked him if he wanted to come up but he said "only for a little bit".  I saw he was trying to play games so I told him he's either IN or OUT...you're not going to try to see me naked if you are not paying me!!! I guess he thought I was stupid, lol.

I'm gearing up for my last appointment of the night and then I'm packing for my trip out to the new town in the morning.  Wish me luck!