Friday, November 21, 2014

Demand what you want!

I went out on 2 sugar daddy dates in the same day a couple of days ago.  One for lunch, another for dinner and I was sitting there on both dates, it dawned on me that it is time to stop compromising.  These men were sitting there astonished that they "struck gold" with me.  The whole time was filled with them complimenting me and thanking me for being there.  They were clearing getting something out of the first meeting and I wasn't.  A "free meal" isn't worth it to me.
I tried it the "nice" way and I really haven't gotten the results I want.  The reason why successful people are successful is because they go after what they want full force and never take "no" for an answer, nor do they compromise their goals.  It's good to be flexible in your approach, but you should never change your true goals and desires to match the need of someone else, thinking that it will get you what you want.
The way I see it, if you two are not on the same page MOVE ON IMMEDIATELY. No sense in wasting time with someone who is not willing to give you what you want.  There are plenty of "fish" out there to feel trapped with "one".  It will never be fair if he gets everything he wants and you only get a little bit.  Neither of you will be happy.

I was chatting with some bloke from Ashley Madison today who told me he was ready to be my sugar daddy.  He asked me what I wanted per month and I told him $5,000 just to see where his head was.  He goes on about how that is a lot of money and I better be worth it. That he's not some fat slob, and that girls are lining up to be with him, so I better be negotiable.  I told him $5,000 is not a lot of money and that I wasn't willing to negotiate and ended with a  "good luck with your search".  Ouch! He probably didn't see that one coming.  This is why I never go for guys who are vain.  They are obviously OLD but spend so much time on their looks (which means NO MONEY) and they are disillusioned to thinking girls want them for their looks.  Yeah, desperate girls! When a guy complains right off the bat about what your are asking for being too much, RUN!!! It means that you guys are not on the same page and no amount of compromise will change that.
I'm done being patient with people and going back to my roots of being a bitch and demanding what I want.  That's how I met Richard, so why not???

In any case, of course the two OLD men I went on SD dates with (they lied about their age, lol) would LOVE to see me again, but I have decided that if it doesn't add value to my life, i.e. financial generosity, I will NOT MAKE TIME FOR IT.

I'm excited to be headed to Europe next week…xoxo

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Old Men and their fetishes...

I decided to go out in Palm Beach Island last night and my first stop was the very popular Buccan.  I went to the bar as soon as I walked in and asked for a wine list.  To my surprise, and older man approached me as asked "so what are you going to have?". I was quite taken back as most men are afraid to approach me, especially the older ones.  This guy was quite the gentleman.  An attorney who lived on the island and was buying me drinks? I decided to explore further.  Of course he was reveling in my upbeat energy while adding nothing back.  I've noticed that men of means tend to be a lot more upbeat, especially when they meet a woman…I started to have my doubts.  He suggested we get out of there and go to HMF at the breakers which was quieter (I think he just didn't want me to get snatched up by anyone else, lol) and I obliged because I wanted to see what he drove.  Alas it was a Ford Explorer! I gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe he was the "green" type.  He ordered a bottle of champagne at the breakers which got me thinking he might be ok.  Then when the bottle was empty, he suggested that we go back to his place for some more. I went along because I wanted to see what his house looked like so that I could make a better judgement call about him.  Alas, he house was small and old! Infact, he just sold it to someone that is planning on tearing it down while he moves AWAY from the island to a townhouse in a not so great area.  Plus it was poorly decorate and looked cheap on the inside. That was it for me.  He has some money, but he's not fun enough for me to not care that he doesn't have enough money.  I told him I had to leave right away and he was wondering why the rush.  I told him because it was late, but really I had made my judgement call.  He tried to steal a kiss but of course he knows he has to earn that. He must have been thinking he hit the jackpot and I would sleep with him, ha! I thought maybe I should have propositioned him, but I just wasn't feeling it. I went out downtown and hung out with some friends till late.
Of course he's been texting me since this morning trying to hang out tonight and tomorrow but I just can't get myself to waste my precious time and energy with this old man who will probably take ages to be worked on.  Perhaps if I still lived here, I would have put him on my roster but I don't, so I won't.  We will see.

On a side note, I got a call from my BDSM advert.  An older man with foot fetish.  He basically worshipped my feet and ass and we finished him off with a foot job.  Quick and easy! I much rather have a straight forward approach, but I know I have to play the game in order to score my BIG fish!

Here's to playing the game to WIN!

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Needy clients

Today I had two of my regulars that are needy back to back! Ugh, these are the guys you can only take in doses.  They are nice people but just too needy.
The first guy kept telling me he loved me and how beautiful I am, of course I smile and say thank you, but there's only so many times one can say thank you! He basically does this the whole session.

The second guy is definitely the weird one.  He says he wants a dominatrix but obviously can't handle it because he also wants a girlfriend experience.  I told him he CANNOT mix the two.  He likes me wearing bright color clothing and make up! I mean he had me reapply lip gloss a million times and even had me change the colors.  I mean you would think he was a kid in a candy store the way he kept asking for different colors.  He also wanted me to spit in his mouth and pinch/play with his nipples, he also wanted to rub oil on me to make me "shiny", then he wanted me to talk "dirty"….this type of session gets old after a while, lol. Eventually I just tell him NO.  Then when the time is up, he wants to pay for more time! Of course I say ok, but I told him just a little longer because I was tired, this was a late night session.

I have to say that my trip back to paradise has been very lucrative.  I cannot complain…off to bed now.

xoxo...

Monday, November 10, 2014

The life of a nomad

So I left Vegas and I'm back in Paradise for a little bit and I just saw a client.  Things seem to be busier (much busier than when I lived here full-time), one client even brought me some presents and Godiva chocolate yesterday.  Things are great! Although it had me thinking where the hell these clients were when I actually lived here, lol.  I guess the saying is true that people miss you when you are not readily available.
I actually met some girls who are escorts as well.  They were actually cool, normal people unlike some of the flakes and shady girls (both squares and escorts) I've met.  It was refreshing to meet nice fun girls.  We actually hung out in Vegas and since I've been back, I've gone out again with one of them. It definitely is great to find someone on the same page as you. She understands how to read a guy and knows that if it's not about the money, there will be no interest.  You would be surprised how hard it is to explain this to a square girl, lol.
I went out with a square girlfriend last night and it was great catching up. She's actually one of the squares that gets the sugar baby lifestyle, but of course I don't tell her all of my business.
I have to say that being "homeless" is definitely working out for me.  It's so great to just pick up and go without having to worry about tending to your "home affairs".  I love it! I can't wait for more adventures…I'm headed to London, Germany, & Norway soon.

I will try to blog more about my adventures…life just gets so busy and fun sometimes that I forget to blog.  I will do better.

Till next time...

Friday, October 10, 2014

World Tour/World Domination

So I did it! I started my travels almost a month ago and now I've made it to Vegas! Staying for a month. Also decided to roll out my BDSM persona. Had my first client which was pretty standard I suppose. Ass worship, me spitting in his mouth, flogging, getting him on all fours and entering him with my strap-on, and for the finale, force feeding him his own semen.
I am excited about this new side/addition to my business. It's great to keep things versatile. I plan on also keeping up with my mainstream endeavors. I'm Juggling a few things and I am very happy doing so.
A regular of mine flew my back to paradise for the weekend but then decided he didn't want to keep (and pay) me for the initial 2 days we agreed upon, but just 1 night. When regulars take advantage, they get cut off! I did have some errands I needed to run so it wasn't a waste of time. I still made all profit, I was just expecting to make more.
I return back to vegas in a day and plan on kicking it into high gear. I also have a potential SD in the works, a professor. Everything is going smoothly. I don't regret taking this time to travel at all��

Can't wait to share more adventures from my travels, xoxo.


Thursday, September 4, 2014

WrestleMania!!!

So I'm touring up north this week and I just wrapped up a wrestling session with a regular client of mine…I'm definitely going to tap into this "fetish" market.  It seems too easy to not capitalize on it.
Afterwards we talked about Joan River's passing today…so sad.  I loved her wit and lack of a filter.  She was definitely one of the greats.  Death seems to be coming to the forefront for me.  I lost a family member last year and now people that I admire are dropping left and right.  I thinks this only means to remind me that LIFE IS SHORT.
My year long (maybe more???) travel is definitely the right thing for me right now.  It's been validated a thousand times.  I'm going to live life to the fullest and pursue my dreams.  We're only young once.  Everything is as it should be.  I am happy….10 more days!!!

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Split Personality or Alcoholic???

One of the reasons Richard and I didn't work out is because he was an alcoholic. Now I love a nice cocktail just as much as the next guy, but when Richard drank in excess he turned into a wicked and verbally abusive person. Luckily I'm not a weak woman or he would have broken me. I could very much give back what he dished out and then some, but why would I want to be around that? I rather be with a fun loving and charming gentleman, but I digress.

So last night I decided to be social and go out clubbing with some acquaintances. What I thought was gonna be a chill night turned into a whirl wind of champagne and shots that lasted into 7:30 this morning! I had an appointment with one of my regulars in the late afternoon but it was a struggle to get out of bed because I was HUNGOVER! I was a little late but made it to him in one piece. This guy owns a restaurant in one of the popular locations in town. He also has a foot fetish and he likes for my toenails to be orange. We played and then he wanted to take me to dinner at his restaurant. We had a great time and he was really getting off on showing me off...typical men. He even asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. I told him he would have to pay me of course which he was ok with. Most men always try to sell you on the trip being your pay, ha!

Things however took a turn as he got drunker. I noticed he was needy and wanted me to "ooh and ah" over his stories and  I could see he was getting frustrated. He's one of those guys that says "you decide", but turns around and makes the decision anyway. I wasn't charging him for my time because he was pretty cool (or so I thought lol), and I wished I had at the end of the evening.  On our way back to his house from dinner, he asked me a question and I gave him a sort of smart ass answer as I normally would and he lost it! He started some bullshit argument, got really angry and even started cursing at me. At that point I knew it was time to go. I personally think he was upset because I didn't want to spend the night (without getting paid) and this was his way of lashing out. I tried to grab my take out on my way out the door, but he wouldn't let me. He really wanted a fight. He even tried to capture my "attitude" on his camera phone, but when he watches it in the morning, he will see that he ended up capturing himself being a complete jackass.

I left immediately and of course, I get a text from him asking me to come back and grab my food. There was no way in the hell I was going back there. He was incoherent and out of his fucking mind. I even saw hints of how he could be an abusive person if someone really pushed him. It reminded me of a huge fight Richard and I had in Turks & Caicos and it really turned me off and I got the hell out of there; the same thing I did with Richard. 
Mr. bi-polar (his new nickname) even said that he still wanted to take me to the Bahamas, ha! I don't know that I want to put myself in that situation with me being in a foreign country with a mean drunk!
I told him we should get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow. No way Jos�
He's going to have to do some serious convincing to get me to even consider going to the Bahamas with him.