New Year! 2016

January has already come and gone and let me just say that my new year started off with a bang!
I ended up in Tel Aviv on New Year's day working a private plane gig.

Then I went to go visit Benjamin and linked up with a potential (Richard).  He turned out to be just another needy energy sucker who was "too scared" to invest in the relationship because he had been burned in the past.  I did get my beats wireless headphones and Chanel perfume that I wanted from him plus he had a car take me to the airport.  But I had to cut my ties because I just can't be with a man that isn't generous.  I'm sure he will be back, but for now I have bigger fish to fry!

I'm winding down from a 3 week winter tour in the North East and it has been quite lucrative.  Then in a couple of weeks I'm embarking on a road trip tour with another escort colleague.  That should be fun, lol.

All in all, I am setting goals and excited to keep checking every one of them off my list.  The world is my oyster.  Stay tuned...

Demand what you want!

I went out on 2 sugar daddy dates in the same day a couple of days ago.  One for lunch, another for dinner and I was sitting there on both dates, it dawned on me that it is time to stop compromising.  These men were sitting there astonished that they "struck gold" with me.  The whole time was filled with them complimenting me and thanking me for being there.  They were clearing getting something out of the first meeting and I wasn't.  A "free meal" isn't worth it to me.
I tried it the "nice" way and I really haven't gotten the results I want.  The reason why successful people are successful is because they go after what they want full force and never take "no" for an answer, nor do they compromise their goals.  It's good to be flexible in your approach, but you should never change your true goals and desires to match the need of someone else, thinking that it will get you what you want.
The way I see it, if you two are not on the same page MOVE ON IMMEDIATELY. No sense in wasting time with someone who is not willing to give you what you want.  There are plenty of "fish" out there to feel trapped with "one".  It will never be fair if he gets everything he wants and you only get a little bit.  Neither of you will be happy.

I was chatting with some bloke from Ashley Madison today who told me he was ready to be my sugar daddy.  He asked me what I wanted per month and I told him $5,000 just to see where his head was.  He goes on about how that is a lot of money and I better be worth it. That he's not some fat slob, and that girls are lining up to be with him, so I better be negotiable.  I told him $5,000 is not a lot of money and that I wasn't willing to negotiate and ended with a  "good luck with your search".  Ouch! He probably didn't see that one coming.  This is why I never go for guys who are vain.  They are obviously OLD but spend so much time on their looks (which means NO MONEY) and they are disillusioned to thinking girls want them for their looks.  Yeah, desperate girls! When a guy complains right off the bat about what your are asking for being too much, RUN!!! It means that you guys are not on the same page and no amount of compromise will change that.
I'm done being patient with people and going back to my roots of being a bitch and demanding what I want.  That's how I met Richard, so why not???

In any case, of course the two OLD men I went on SD dates with (they lied about their age, lol) would LOVE to see me again, but I have decided that if it doesn't add value to my life, i.e. financial generosity, I will NOT MAKE TIME FOR IT.

I'm excited to be headed to Europe next week…xoxo

Split Personality or Alcoholic???

One of the reasons Richard and I didn't work out is because he was an alcoholic. Now I love a nice cocktail just as much as the next guy, but when Richard drank in excess he turned into a wicked and verbally abusive person. Luckily I'm not a weak woman or he would have broken me. I could very much give back what he dished out and then some, but why would I want to be around that? I rather be with a fun loving and charming gentleman, but I digress.

So last night I decided to be social and go out clubbing with some acquaintances. What I thought was gonna be a chill night turned into a whirl wind of champagne and shots that lasted into 7:30 this morning! I had an appointment with one of my regulars in the late afternoon but it was a struggle to get out of bed because I was HUNGOVER! I was a little late but made it to him in one piece. This guy owns a restaurant in one of the popular locations in town. He also has a foot fetish and he likes for my toenails to be orange. We played and then he wanted to take me to dinner at his restaurant. We had a great time and he was really getting off on showing me off...typical men. He even asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. I told him he would have to pay me of course which he was ok with. Most men always try to sell you on the trip being your pay, ha!

Things however took a turn as he got drunker. I noticed he was needy and wanted me to "ooh and ah" over his stories and  I could see he was getting frustrated. He's one of those guys that says "you decide", but turns around and makes the decision anyway. I wasn't charging him for my time because he was pretty cool (or so I thought lol), and I wished I had at the end of the evening.  On our way back to his house from dinner, he asked me a question and I gave him a sort of smart ass answer as I normally would and he lost it! He started some bullshit argument, got really angry and even started cursing at me. At that point I knew it was time to go. I personally think he was upset because I didn't want to spend the night (without getting paid) and this was his way of lashing out. I tried to grab my take out on my way out the door, but he wouldn't let me. He really wanted a fight. He even tried to capture my "attitude" on his camera phone, but when he watches it in the morning, he will see that he ended up capturing himself being a complete jackass.

I left immediately and of course, I get a text from him asking me to come back and grab my food. There was no way in the hell I was going back there. He was incoherent and out of his fucking mind. I even saw hints of how he could be an abusive person if someone really pushed him. It reminded me of a huge fight Richard and I had in Turks & Caicos and it really turned me off and I got the hell out of there; the same thing I did with Richard. 

Mr. bi-polar (his new nickname) even said that he still wanted to take me to the Bahamas, ha! I don't know that I want to put myself in that situation with me being in a foreign country with a mean drunk!

I told him we should get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow. No way José🚫

He's going to have to do some serious convincing to get me to even consider going to the Bahamas with him.

A bouquet of flowers

So I get a call from my front desk today telling me that I had a flower delivery....who sent it you ask? My client from the "threesome gone wrong". Inside was a note apologizing for wasting my time and thanking me for being understanding. Cute, but I would have much rather prefered cash. Well I guess he's hooked because he said he would be seeing me soon. Something tells me it's gonna be before the week runs out, lol. I texted him to thank him for being sweet and thoughtful. I don't know why men are so infatuated with sex, but it's definitely to the advantage of women everywhere.
I spent some time in the ocean today. It was much needed and very relaxing. I live on the beach but don't spend much time enjoying it. I do run on the beach though so I do enjoy the view very often. I will make it a point to spend my last days in paradise enjoying it before I embark on my "World Tour". The time is drawing near.
I have a potential client tomorrow....let's hope it pans out. Nite all

Threesome Gone Wrong

Well today turned out to be sort of a busy day for me, which is rare in my home base.
A regular of mine asked me if I would do a threesome with him and his girlfriend and of course I said yes.  He told me he would ask her and get back to me.  Shortly after, he lets me know that it is a "go".  We set up a time and I proceeded to get ready. He even told me to dress very well and sexy (which I already knew to do).
They arrive and I greet them happily at the door.  Right away I sensed something was off because the girlfriend was not happy.  I sat them down and offered them water.  Then after a moment of awkward looks, I asked how everyone was doing and if everything was ok, to which the girlfriend said "no".  Whoops! RED FLAG!
She said she had told him she wasn't into it and that she would just wait if he wanted to still go ahead with me.  I knew better than to even let that happen.  I complimented her, telling her she was beautiful and that we didn't have to do anything if she wasn't comfortable.  To which she mentioned "yeah apparently I'm not enough for him". Yikes! I hope he didn't think I was going to convince her against her will!
I even offered up some wine, to which she declined.  Then I knew for sure NOTHING was happening.  It was very awkward, and my regular sat there looking puzzled and gulping his water.  They eventually left.  I texted right away letting him have it for not checking with his girlfriend first and wasting my time.  He apologized profusely citing that he was very excited and everything happened so fast.  I told him never to EVER do that again without making sure his significant other was ok with it.
I've never done a threesome where the woman wasn't on board.  Everyone knows the woman runs the show in these situations, but my client apparently was too stupid to figure it out.  He made it seem like they had done it before but from the looks of the girlfriend, they certainly hadn't.  Maybe they went to a swinger's club, but it didn't look like they had any experience with threesomes.

In any case, luckily I had another client coming by shortly after.  New client, very excited and paranoid at the same time.  It was very quick and easy and he left very happy.
Nothing shocks me anymore...men are so obsessed with sex, it's quite comical actually.  I just need to find an extremely wealthy one that's obsessed with me! I know it will happen soon...I'm just going to focus on my other goals while I wait.

I learned a new editing technique on photoshop that I'm quite happy about.  I'll definitely save some money on having someone else do it for me ;-)

On a different note, I was chatting with this bloke from Seeking Arrangement last night, and the dumb ass thought I would drive almost 45 minutes at 1am to meet him for sex if he paid me, ha! Chances are if he wasn't calling an escort, it's because he couldn't afford one.  Which makes him a cheap ass! Things like that will never end well.  Last minute, nothing discussed, plus he could be the next craigslist killer, lol.  I told him no and went to bed.  These guys  think that lying about their net worth will make girls do ANYTHING.  I wasn't born yesterday.  Maybe it works on some other girls, but at this point in my life I can smell money a mile away.  I know what it talks and acts like; and this guy was talking & acting like a cheap pervert.  Maybe on a slight chance I was wrong, but even if I was I wouldn't want a creep like that anyway.  NEXT!!!

Miami Swim Week 2014

Well, I just wrapped up with a new client, Russian New Yorker who loves to talk dirty in bed.  I don't know what it is about this particular act, but I feel it sounds so fake, especially if you don't know the person, but hey I'm here to please.
I'm now going over the pictures from my super hot fetish/glamour shoot from a couple of days ago.  This is the hard part.  Trying to decide with picture you want and which ones you wish to delete; there are probably a thousand photos!  It's a process in itself but I'm glad I did it.
I ordered some delivery, it's gonna be a "stay in" kind of a night as it is non-stop thunderstorms today.  I'm looking forward to attending some swim week events.  It was fabulous last year so I'm sure it will be the same this year...ciao

I wasn't born yesterday...

So this guy I met while I stripped breifly in Palm Beach a few years ago,  just took me out to dinner tonight. He's cheap even though he has money, but I contacted him all the same because it is not as busy in this new city (I won't be coming here again), and I figured I could pry some money out of him and get a nice meal. It still has been a lucrative trip though. He thinks I'm here working a private jet trip;  I love the alibi my mainstream work gives me😜
Anyways, when I first met this one, it was quite a feat to let this him know that he had to spoil me even though we met in a strip club and I was a stripper! (It's still a silly song and dance we do and I avoid it at all costs, but since I'm in his city, I figured I might as well). I think he has a different definition of what "spoiling" means (he's 61); but I never let men off the hook, especially older men, because they should know better.
In anycase we had a very nice dinner and he said he wanted to take me shopping but I told him I'd rather have the cash. He said he didn't have any cash on him and would take care of me tomorrow, but he understood if I wanted to wait. I told him I would wait. I've already been down this road before where I assumed he would take care of me and he didn't. So much so that I cursed him out he seriously thought I hated him, lol.
As soon as I said I would wait, he left immediately. He went from talking about how he wanted to make love to me and kiss me, to getting the hell out of my hotel room, lol.
I wasn't born yesterday; he doesn't go to Neiman Marcus asking for credit and he sure as hell will not do that with me! I sent him a text right after thanking him for dinner and saying that I looked forward to seeing him tomorrow. There's a 50/50 chance he will bail, but I could care less. Men think they can use us for our goods and then get upset when we want something in return, ha! It doesn't phase me, I get what I can out of you and toss you aside. I'm only nice to deserving men.
I have a few appointments tomorrow and then I'm headed back home to paradise. Time for bed💤

You make me laugh...

Well this trip up north has been very lucrative...I'm so glad I came here.  I'm trying out a new city nearby that I've gotten several requests to visit.  Let's hope it's as good as this trip.  And of course, Murphy's law, while I've been away, I've gotten requests for private jet trips as well as my escort services back home.  It never fails....but at least I'm doing other "mainstream" things besides adult work.  This is absolutely necessary to stay balanced.

I linked up with a "sort of" Sugar Daddy I met through a friend.  Every time we get together, we grab dinner, play, and he gives me money.  Today though at dinner, he announced that he is now dating someone (why the fuck did you want to go out with me? I thought). I told him he could have easily texted me that, but he claimed he really wanted to get together and "catch up"....I was smelling bullshit. In any case, we had a nice dinner and then he decided he wanted to grab something at Wolford since our restaurant was in the mall.  I thought it was for his girlfriend, but it turned out that it was for me.  It definitely reminded me of Richard because he was the only one who knew quality and designer fashion.  I smiled cheekily to myself.
It was kind of a forced shopping spree because he never asked me what I wanted; he picked the store and told me to pick out something, so I just picked whatever I saw there that I thought was cute because I didn't feel like arguing.  He kept the receipt, I guess to make sure I didn't return it, lol.  I thanked him for the gift but I really didn't see where this was going.  I would have been just as happy with the cash.  He drove me back to my hotel and told me he wanted to see me in the outfit.  I thought, "great! he still wants to play", so I asked him if he wanted to come up but he said "only for a little bit".  I saw he was trying to play games so I told him he's either IN or OUT...you're not going to try to see me naked if you are not paying me!!! I guess he thought I was stupid, lol.

I'm gearing up for my last appointment of the night and then I'm packing for my trip out to the new town in the morning.  Wish me luck!

Feeling Good....

Just saw a client, tall and good looking...that's how I like to start my day; making Benjamins, lol.  I also worked a private jet trip out west last week, so I'm making mainstream money as well.  Gotta keeps my options for meeting a wealthy hubby open :-)

I'm meeting with an old friend from high school for dinner tonight.  Happy to see her as she's been such a great friend over the years.

I'm gearing up for a tour up north next month.

I connected with a bloke from Ashley Madison. He agreed to an arrangement, we'll see how it goes.
All in all, I'm just relaxing in paradise and working out.  I played some soccer last night which was a blast.  We had our own mini world cup, lol. Gotta get in trim shape for my dominatrix photo shoot coming up.

I'm just so excited about the future! September is right around the corner.  So excited! Did I mention I am excited? Hahahaha

Till next time...

Interesting Turn of Events

Well remember Mr. Scottland, the cheapo from a couple of days ago??? Well he tried to hang out with me again today so I just came out and told him that he needed to be generous and guess what??? He was fine with it.  Said he didn't know the rules, yeah right! Ha! In anycase he's supposed to be flying me back to the UK so we'll see how that goes.

I'm headed back to the States in the morning...so excited! I'm getting home sick now, lol.

So remember Mr. Frenchie? I blogged about him the last time I was here in the UK, Dom Perignon? Yes him...I decided to text him out of the blue to see if he would be interested in "hanging out" again but didn't think much of it since he protested paying last time but still did.  What do ya know??? He wanted to see me.  I went to see him tonight and of course it went well, he was all over me and obsessed.  After we finished fucking, he asked me if "this was my job".  Ha! I told him I didn't like labels and quickly changed the subject.  Told him about my plan to take a year to travel and he loved the idea and told me I was welcome to stay in his place (which is absolutely beautiful) anytime I want as long as I want. I don't know about that since I would still have to work on the side, but I must say I was flattered by the offer.
 I have to say, things are falling into place.  I might not know where I'm going, but I know that I'm going there in STYLE :-)

Next week I'm headed to Montreal to celebrate my birthday with friends...it's no Monaco but I will get there next year once I'm more fluid.  I will miss JDM (a fellow blogger) while I'm there, but something tells me we will connect soon enough.

I'm off to the States in 4 hours!!! Till then....xoxo

My Little Bitch

I just saw a regular client of mine here in the UK.  Yet another fetish hungry client who just wants to worship me and be my little bitch...NO SEX.  Now don't get me wrong, of course I enjoy sex, but only with clients that know what they are doing and we all know there are a select few.
I have to say that I'm loving this genre more and more....so much so that I'm looking forward to my fetish themed shoot when I get back to the states....I'm going to have a dedicated website just for this stuff....this is a big market and I am determined to tap into it.
I'm a naturally dominant woman to weak men (and even strong ones) so it comes naturally to me.  Plus is completely legal in the U.S and I don't have to worry about the stress of extensive screening.

I've decided to take a year to travel the world (working too of course) in the fall.  I will not renew my lease...I'm just going to float from place to place all over the US and the world! I won't have anything holding me back and I can just make decisions based on how I feel.  I'm excited as I feel that this is the only way I can truly enjoy and explore Europe.  Plus I will discover the gems that are little towns here in the US, for lucrative visits. In addition I believe this will help me grow spiritually and really be in tuned with myself and my intuition.  There are so many things I want to do and I know that being in one place is not going to get me there.  I'm kinda scared but more excited than scared...I have to take this leap of faith...what have I got to lose really?
I'm absolutely consumed by this...it's all I think about...I'm just counting down the days till I'm completely FREE to move about as I please :-)

3 more months to go!

Scottish in the UK...meh

So I've arrived in the UK and I decided meet up with this Scottish guy last night from travel girls.  First guy I've ever met on that site.  I don't know if I like travel girls because it's just filled with your basic horny guys looking for free sex.  I guess pretty much like ANY OTHER SITE OUT THERE, lol.
This guy however, lured me in with his private club membership...it couldn't hurt to check out that scene as I heard it is pretty big here.
It was a nice property with an eclectic group....pretty fun evening and he seemed taken by me, as they all are, but I could tell this one would not the be the "paying" guy.  I'm pretty good at picking them out now based on conversation and listening to key things they say.  I could have gone fishing but I was kinda jet lagged and tired so this was sort of a refreshing change of scenery.  Plus I saw a good client earlier and I had made my quota for the day.
He seemed like a nice guy but he's an energy sucker.  This is a person that lives off your positive energy/vibes and literally feeds off you like a leach until you're just plain spent.

I was so tired that I agreed to have dinner with him today, yikes!!! What the fuck was I thinking?  He wanted to schedule it for later but I made him do it early so I can have time for fishing.  There's no way I'm going to let a non-paying guy take up my Friday evening!  I was actually pretty tired today so I blamed it on the jet lag.  He even commented on how I'm not my energetic self; translation - I need your energy to suck on because I'm a boring piece of shit without it.
I was actually kinda turned off by him because I mentioned that I needed a coat last night (I didn't anticipate it being as cold as it is in the UK and I didn't think to bring a jacket with me to the middle east and since I came straight from there....you get the point).  This afternoon he messaged me asking if I made it to the store to get it yet, as if to say "I'll get it for you".  But did he??? Hell no.  He even had the nerve to ask me to send him pictures! Ha! I swear it's the cheap ones that are always asking you for THE WORLD.  I properly declined him of course telling him that privilege is for someone that I am in a relationship with.  Translation: No money, No pictures!
From my experiences, I've found that guys are either generous or THEY ARE NOT.  You cannot force them to be generous with you.  There are certain things you can say to bait a generous man, and if he is truly a gentleman, he will bite!
He even told me he wanted me to join him on a business trip to Scotland where he is from.  I again baited him with the "I really have to be careful about my expenses" line, and to that he responded "I will even buy your ticket".  Are you fucking kidding me??? He honestly thought I would pay for my own ticket to spend time with him? Ha!  Game, set, match! WE ARE DONE HERE.

In any case, after dinner we decided to walk down this street with several shops to see if we could find a coat.  This was his suggestion so I thought he was generous after all (I was wrong).  I told him I wanted something reasonably priced (again baiting him to show that I am sensible) since I have plenty of coats at home and didn't want to be wasteful.  He suggested we go into several stores but didn't offer to buy me anything.  At this point I was completely turned off and it showed.  I told him I was ready to go home.  He even mentioned in the taxi that I seemed colder today towards him (dumb ass, it's because you are not generous!!!).  I blamed it on the jet lag of course; I got home and bid him good bye.  He told me he really wanted to see me again, but that's not going to happen.  Not unless he pays up.  And if he messages me, I just might tell him to pay me, lol.
Sometimes it's situations like these that make me just want to be straight up with men and ask them to pay me, but there is a certain song and dance you do when you meet guys on one of these "dating" sites.  Most of them are posers and just looking for young/dumb girls to give them free pussy...thank God I'm not a fool.

I'm going to sleep this off because I definitely need to go fishing later.  I already have my spot picked out as I was successful the last time I was there....nite nite

Tomorrow I have a regular of mine coming to see me and I'm still going fishing!

That was Quick!!!

Well I got a call from another company I used to fly for, before taking on that time consuming full-time job. Quick easy money; I guess I got back on my feet quickly, lol. I'm on that plane tomorrow.
I saw a regular client of mine yesterday and made some quick/easy money too! I love having all these different avenues of income. Warren Buffett said it correctly when he said "never depend on one source of income", and he is so right about that!
I'm definitely excited to be touring overseas, which is happening next month! Keep you posted....