Demand what you want!

I went out on 2 sugar daddy dates in the same day a couple of days ago.  One for lunch, another for dinner and I was sitting there on both dates, it dawned on me that it is time to stop compromising.  These men were sitting there astonished that they "struck gold" with me.  The whole time was filled with them complimenting me and thanking me for being there.  They were clearing getting something out of the first meeting and I wasn't.  A "free meal" isn't worth it to me.
I tried it the "nice" way and I really haven't gotten the results I want.  The reason why successful people are successful is because they go after what they want full force and never take "no" for an answer, nor do they compromise their goals.  It's good to be flexible in your approach, but you should never change your true goals and desires to match the need of someone else, thinking that it will get you what you want.
The way I see it, if you two are not on the same page MOVE ON IMMEDIATELY. No sense in wasting time with someone who is not willing to give you what you want.  There are plenty of "fish" out there to feel trapped with "one".  It will never be fair if he gets everything he wants and you only get a little bit.  Neither of you will be happy.

I was chatting with some bloke from Ashley Madison today who told me he was ready to be my sugar daddy.  He asked me what I wanted per month and I told him $5,000 just to see where his head was.  He goes on about how that is a lot of money and I better be worth it. That he's not some fat slob, and that girls are lining up to be with him, so I better be negotiable.  I told him $5,000 is not a lot of money and that I wasn't willing to negotiate and ended with a  "good luck with your search".  Ouch! He probably didn't see that one coming.  This is why I never go for guys who are vain.  They are obviously OLD but spend so much time on their looks (which means NO MONEY) and they are disillusioned to thinking girls want them for their looks.  Yeah, desperate girls! When a guy complains right off the bat about what your are asking for being too much, RUN!!! It means that you guys are not on the same page and no amount of compromise will change that.
I'm done being patient with people and going back to my roots of being a bitch and demanding what I want.  That's how I met Richard, so why not???

In any case, of course the two OLD men I went on SD dates with (they lied about their age, lol) would LOVE to see me again, but I have decided that if it doesn't add value to my life, i.e. financial generosity, I will NOT MAKE TIME FOR IT.

I'm excited to be headed to Europe next week…xoxo

Old Men and their fetishes...

I decided to go out in Palm Beach Island last night and my first stop was the very popular Buccan.  I went to the bar as soon as I walked in and asked for a wine list.  To my surprise, and older man approached me as asked "so what are you going to have?". I was quite taken back as most men are afraid to approach me, especially the older ones.  This guy was quite the gentleman.  An attorney who lived on the island and was buying me drinks? I decided to explore further.  Of course he was reveling in my upbeat energy while adding nothing back.  I've noticed that men of means tend to be a lot more upbeat, especially when they meet a woman…I started to have my doubts.  He suggested we get out of there and go to HMF at the breakers which was quieter (I think he just didn't want me to get snatched up by anyone else, lol) and I obliged because I wanted to see what he drove.  Alas it was a Ford Explorer! I gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe he was the "green" type.  He ordered a bottle of champagne at the breakers which got me thinking he might be ok.  Then when the bottle was empty, he suggested that we go back to his place for some more. I went along because I wanted to see what his house looked like so that I could make a better judgement call about him.  Alas, he house was small and old! Infact, he just sold it to someone that is planning on tearing it down while he moves AWAY from the island to a townhouse in a not so great area.  Plus it was poorly decorate and looked cheap on the inside. That was it for me.  He has some money, but he's not fun enough for me to not care that he doesn't have enough money.  I told him I had to leave right away and he was wondering why the rush.  I told him because it was late, but really I had made my judgement call.  He tried to steal a kiss but of course he knows he has to earn that. He must have been thinking he hit the jackpot and I would sleep with him, ha! I thought maybe I should have propositioned him, but I just wasn't feeling it. I went out downtown and hung out with some friends till late.
Of course he's been texting me since this morning trying to hang out tonight and tomorrow but I just can't get myself to waste my precious time and energy with this old man who will probably take ages to be worked on.  Perhaps if I still lived here, I would have put him on my roster but I don't, so I won't.  We will see.

On a side note, I got a call from my BDSM advert.  An older man with foot fetish.  He basically worshipped my feet and ass and we finished him off with a foot job.  Quick and easy! I much rather have a straight forward approach, but I know I have to play the game in order to score my BIG fish!

Here's to playing the game to WIN!

Needy clients

Today I had two of my regulars that are needy back to back! Ugh, these are the guys you can only take in doses.  They are nice people but just too needy.
The first guy kept telling me he loved me and how beautiful I am, of course I smile and say thank you, but there's only so many times one can say thank you! He basically does this the whole session.

The second guy is definitely the weird one.  He says he wants a dominatrix but obviously can't handle it because he also wants a girlfriend experience.  I told him he CANNOT mix the two.  He likes me wearing bright color clothing and make up! I mean he had me reapply lip gloss a million times and even had me change the colors.  I mean you would think he was a kid in a candy store the way he kept asking for different colors.  He also wanted me to spit in his mouth and pinch/play with his nipples, he also wanted to rub oil on me to make me "shiny", then he wanted me to talk "dirty"….this type of session gets old after a while, lol. Eventually I just tell him NO.  Then when the time is up, he wants to pay for more time! Of course I say ok, but I told him just a little longer because I was tired, this was a late night session.

I have to say that my trip back to paradise has been very lucrative.  I cannot complain…off to bed now.

xoxo...

The life of a nomad

So I left Vegas and I'm back in Paradise for a little bit and I just saw a client.  Things seem to be busier (much busier than when I lived here full-time), one client even brought me some presents and Godiva chocolate yesterday.  Things are great! Although it had me thinking where the hell these clients were when I actually lived here, lol.  I guess the saying is true that people miss you when you are not readily available.
I actually met some girls who are escorts as well.  They were actually cool, normal people unlike some of the flakes and shady girls (both squares and escorts) I've met.  It was refreshing to meet nice fun girls.  We actually hung out in Vegas and since I've been back, I've gone out again with one of them. It definitely is great to find someone on the same page as you. She understands how to read a guy and knows that if it's not about the money, there will be no interest.  You would be surprised how hard it is to explain this to a square girl, lol.
I went out with a square girlfriend last night and it was great catching up. She's actually one of the squares that gets the sugar baby lifestyle, but of course I don't tell her all of my business.
I have to say that being "homeless" is definitely working out for me.  It's so great to just pick up and go without having to worry about tending to your "home affairs".  I love it! I can't wait for more adventures…I'm headed to London, Germany, & Norway soon.

I will try to blog more about my adventures…life just gets so busy and fun sometimes that I forget to blog.  I will do better.

Till next time...

World Tour/World Domination

So I did it! I started my travels almost a month ago and now I've made it to Vegas! Staying for a month. Also decided to roll out my BDSM persona. Had my first client which was pretty standard I suppose. Ass worship, me spitting in his mouth, flogging, getting him on all fours and entering him with my strap-on, and for the finale, force feeding him his own semen.

I am excited about this new side/addition to my business. It's great to keep things versatile. I plan on also keeping up with my mainstream endeavors. I'm Juggling a few things and I am very happy doing so.

A regular of mine flew my back to paradise for the weekend but then decided he didn't want to keep (and pay) me for the initial 2 days we agreed upon, but just 1 night. When regulars take advantage, they get cut off! I did have some errands I needed to run so it wasn't a waste of time. I still made all profit, I was just expecting to make more.

I return back to vegas in a day and plan on kicking it into high gear. I also have a potential SD in the works, a professor. Everything is going smoothly. I don't regret taking this time to travel at all😋

Can't wait to share more adventures from my travels, xoxo.

WrestleMania!!!

So I'm touring up north this week and I just wrapped up a wrestling session with a regular client of mine…I'm definitely going to tap into this "fetish" market.  It seems too easy to not capitalize on it.
Afterwards we talked about Joan River's passing today…so sad.  I loved her wit and lack of a filter.  She was definitely one of the greats.  Death seems to be coming to the forefront for me.  I lost a family member last year and now people that I admire are dropping left and right.  I thinks this only means to remind me that LIFE IS SHORT.
My year long (maybe more???) travel is definitely the right thing for me right now.  It's been validated a thousand times.  I'm going to live life to the fullest and pursue my dreams.  We're only young once.  Everything is as it should be.  I am happy….10 more days!!!

Split Personality or Alcoholic???

One of the reasons Richard and I didn't work out is because he was an alcoholic. Now I love a nice cocktail just as much as the next guy, but when Richard drank in excess he turned into a wicked and verbally abusive person. Luckily I'm not a weak woman or he would have broken me. I could very much give back what he dished out and then some, but why would I want to be around that? I rather be with a fun loving and charming gentleman, but I digress.

So last night I decided to be social and go out clubbing with some acquaintances. What I thought was gonna be a chill night turned into a whirl wind of champagne and shots that lasted into 7:30 this morning! I had an appointment with one of my regulars in the late afternoon but it was a struggle to get out of bed because I was HUNGOVER! I was a little late but made it to him in one piece. This guy owns a restaurant in one of the popular locations in town. He also has a foot fetish and he likes for my toenails to be orange. We played and then he wanted to take me to dinner at his restaurant. We had a great time and he was really getting off on showing me off...typical men. He even asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. I told him he would have to pay me of course which he was ok with. Most men always try to sell you on the trip being your pay, ha!

Things however took a turn as he got drunker. I noticed he was needy and wanted me to "ooh and ah" over his stories and  I could see he was getting frustrated. He's one of those guys that says "you decide", but turns around and makes the decision anyway. I wasn't charging him for my time because he was pretty cool (or so I thought lol), and I wished I had at the end of the evening.  On our way back to his house from dinner, he asked me a question and I gave him a sort of smart ass answer as I normally would and he lost it! He started some bullshit argument, got really angry and even started cursing at me. At that point I knew it was time to go. I personally think he was upset because I didn't want to spend the night (without getting paid) and this was his way of lashing out. I tried to grab my take out on my way out the door, but he wouldn't let me. He really wanted a fight. He even tried to capture my "attitude" on his camera phone, but when he watches it in the morning, he will see that he ended up capturing himself being a complete jackass.

I left immediately and of course, I get a text from him asking me to come back and grab my food. There was no way in the hell I was going back there. He was incoherent and out of his fucking mind. I even saw hints of how he could be an abusive person if someone really pushed him. It reminded me of a huge fight Richard and I had in Turks & Caicos and it really turned me off and I got the hell out of there; the same thing I did with Richard. 

Mr. bi-polar (his new nickname) even said that he still wanted to take me to the Bahamas, ha! I don't know that I want to put myself in that situation with me being in a foreign country with a mean drunk!

I told him we should get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow. No way José🚫

He's going to have to do some serious convincing to get me to even consider going to the Bahamas with him.

A bouquet of flowers

So I get a call from my front desk today telling me that I had a flower delivery....who sent it you ask? My client from the "threesome gone wrong". Inside was a note apologizing for wasting my time and thanking me for being understanding. Cute, but I would have much rather prefered cash. Well I guess he's hooked because he said he would be seeing me soon. Something tells me it's gonna be before the week runs out, lol. I texted him to thank him for being sweet and thoughtful. I don't know why men are so infatuated with sex, but it's definitely to the advantage of women everywhere.
I spent some time in the ocean today. It was much needed and very relaxing. I live on the beach but don't spend much time enjoying it. I do run on the beach though so I do enjoy the view very often. I will make it a point to spend my last days in paradise enjoying it before I embark on my "World Tour". The time is drawing near.
I have a potential client tomorrow....let's hope it pans out. Nite all

Threesome Gone Wrong

Well today turned out to be sort of a busy day for me, which is rare in my home base.
A regular of mine asked me if I would do a threesome with him and his girlfriend and of course I said yes.  He told me he would ask her and get back to me.  Shortly after, he lets me know that it is a "go".  We set up a time and I proceeded to get ready. He even told me to dress very well and sexy (which I already knew to do).
They arrive and I greet them happily at the door.  Right away I sensed something was off because the girlfriend was not happy.  I sat them down and offered them water.  Then after a moment of awkward looks, I asked how everyone was doing and if everything was ok, to which the girlfriend said "no".  Whoops! RED FLAG!
She said she had told him she wasn't into it and that she would just wait if he wanted to still go ahead with me.  I knew better than to even let that happen.  I complimented her, telling her she was beautiful and that we didn't have to do anything if she wasn't comfortable.  To which she mentioned "yeah apparently I'm not enough for him". Yikes! I hope he didn't think I was going to convince her against her will!
I even offered up some wine, to which she declined.  Then I knew for sure NOTHING was happening.  It was very awkward, and my regular sat there looking puzzled and gulping his water.  They eventually left.  I texted right away letting him have it for not checking with his girlfriend first and wasting my time.  He apologized profusely citing that he was very excited and everything happened so fast.  I told him never to EVER do that again without making sure his significant other was ok with it.
I've never done a threesome where the woman wasn't on board.  Everyone knows the woman runs the show in these situations, but my client apparently was too stupid to figure it out.  He made it seem like they had done it before but from the looks of the girlfriend, they certainly hadn't.  Maybe they went to a swinger's club, but it didn't look like they had any experience with threesomes.

In any case, luckily I had another client coming by shortly after.  New client, very excited and paranoid at the same time.  It was very quick and easy and he left very happy.
Nothing shocks me anymore...men are so obsessed with sex, it's quite comical actually.  I just need to find an extremely wealthy one that's obsessed with me! I know it will happen soon...I'm just going to focus on my other goals while I wait.

I learned a new editing technique on photoshop that I'm quite happy about.  I'll definitely save some money on having someone else do it for me ;-)

On a different note, I was chatting with this bloke from Seeking Arrangement last night, and the dumb ass thought I would drive almost 45 minutes at 1am to meet him for sex if he paid me, ha! Chances are if he wasn't calling an escort, it's because he couldn't afford one.  Which makes him a cheap ass! Things like that will never end well.  Last minute, nothing discussed, plus he could be the next craigslist killer, lol.  I told him no and went to bed.  These guys  think that lying about their net worth will make girls do ANYTHING.  I wasn't born yesterday.  Maybe it works on some other girls, but at this point in my life I can smell money a mile away.  I know what it talks and acts like; and this guy was talking & acting like a cheap pervert.  Maybe on a slight chance I was wrong, but even if I was I wouldn't want a creep like that anyway.  NEXT!!!

Miami Swim Week 2014

Well, I just wrapped up with a new client, Russian New Yorker who loves to talk dirty in bed.  I don't know what it is about this particular act, but I feel it sounds so fake, especially if you don't know the person, but hey I'm here to please.
I'm now going over the pictures from my super hot fetish/glamour shoot from a couple of days ago.  This is the hard part.  Trying to decide with picture you want and which ones you wish to delete; there are probably a thousand photos!  It's a process in itself but I'm glad I did it.
I ordered some delivery, it's gonna be a "stay in" kind of a night as it is non-stop thunderstorms today.  I'm looking forward to attending some swim week events.  It was fabulous last year so I'm sure it will be the same this year...ciao

I wasn't born yesterday...

So this guy I met while I stripped breifly in Palm Beach a few years ago,  just took me out to dinner tonight. He's cheap even though he has money, but I contacted him all the same because it is not as busy in this new city (I won't be coming here again), and I figured I could pry some money out of him and get a nice meal. It still has been a lucrative trip though. He thinks I'm here working a private jet trip;  I love the alibi my mainstream work gives me😜
Anyways, when I first met this one, it was quite a feat to let this him know that he had to spoil me even though we met in a strip club and I was a stripper! (It's still a silly song and dance we do and I avoid it at all costs, but since I'm in his city, I figured I might as well). I think he has a different definition of what "spoiling" means (he's 61); but I never let men off the hook, especially older men, because they should know better.
In anycase we had a very nice dinner and he said he wanted to take me shopping but I told him I'd rather have the cash. He said he didn't have any cash on him and would take care of me tomorrow, but he understood if I wanted to wait. I told him I would wait. I've already been down this road before where I assumed he would take care of me and he didn't. So much so that I cursed him out he seriously thought I hated him, lol.
As soon as I said I would wait, he left immediately. He went from talking about how he wanted to make love to me and kiss me, to getting the hell out of my hotel room, lol.
I wasn't born yesterday; he doesn't go to Neiman Marcus asking for credit and he sure as hell will not do that with me! I sent him a text right after thanking him for dinner and saying that I looked forward to seeing him tomorrow. There's a 50/50 chance he will bail, but I could care less. Men think they can use us for our goods and then get upset when we want something in return, ha! It doesn't phase me, I get what I can out of you and toss you aside. I'm only nice to deserving men.
I have a few appointments tomorrow and then I'm headed back home to paradise. Time for bed💤

You make me laugh...

Well this trip up north has been very lucrative...I'm so glad I came here.  I'm trying out a new city nearby that I've gotten several requests to visit.  Let's hope it's as good as this trip.  And of course, Murphy's law, while I've been away, I've gotten requests for private jet trips as well as my escort services back home.  It never fails....but at least I'm doing other "mainstream" things besides adult work.  This is absolutely necessary to stay balanced.

I linked up with a "sort of" Sugar Daddy I met through a friend.  Every time we get together, we grab dinner, play, and he gives me money.  Today though at dinner, he announced that he is now dating someone (why the fuck did you want to go out with me? I thought). I told him he could have easily texted me that, but he claimed he really wanted to get together and "catch up"....I was smelling bullshit. In any case, we had a nice dinner and then he decided he wanted to grab something at Wolford since our restaurant was in the mall.  I thought it was for his girlfriend, but it turned out that it was for me.  It definitely reminded me of Richard because he was the only one who knew quality and designer fashion.  I smiled cheekily to myself.
It was kind of a forced shopping spree because he never asked me what I wanted; he picked the store and told me to pick out something, so I just picked whatever I saw there that I thought was cute because I didn't feel like arguing.  He kept the receipt, I guess to make sure I didn't return it, lol.  I thanked him for the gift but I really didn't see where this was going.  I would have been just as happy with the cash.  He drove me back to my hotel and told me he wanted to see me in the outfit.  I thought, "great! he still wants to play", so I asked him if he wanted to come up but he said "only for a little bit".  I saw he was trying to play games so I told him he's either IN or OUT...you're not going to try to see me naked if you are not paying me!!! I guess he thought I was stupid, lol.

I'm gearing up for my last appointment of the night and then I'm packing for my trip out to the new town in the morning.  Wish me luck!

Independence day weekend 2014

Well today was unexpectedly busy and lucrative.  I saw a regular of mine and a new client which is always great.  I worked out (working on getting my splits back) and had a pretty nice day. I've pretty much kept to myself indoors and have filled my time with sleeping, eating, working out, and watching TV.  I have a hot shoot coming up and I have to be just so.

I got a call from this match maker I spoke to a couple of days ago.  It's a high end match making agency that claims to have the guy I'm looking for but they want me to shell out $2,500.  I don't know how I feel about that.  Plus my head is not wrapped around dating at the moment...I've switched back to my old self, the one that is focused on financial freedom.  I've decided to work on becoming a millionaire myself until I meet my billionaire. So I don't even think I will be any good, because I plan on traveling non-stop in a couple of months.  I will probably meet my match during my travels.
Besides I don't know that they are THAT good.  If it was a guaranteed, then I would probably be more interested, but I've been burned by a "high end" match making service before. They claim to be great but in the end, they end up catering to where their money is, THE MEN.
I didn't even bother calling her back.  We've already talked on the phone, I don't know why she wants to "talk" some more.  I'm a woman that knows what she wants.  No one needs to persuade me to do anything.

In any case, I'm getting ready for bed as I have a morning flight up north.  I'm touring this week because it is way too quiet and boring in paradise.  Most of the "money" is up north or in Europe which is where I should be!  But I'm not even upset....I have a little over 60 days left and then I'm off being a jet setter :-)

Good vibes

Today was a good day. I met up with a bloke from Ashley Madison. He was basically a sad, pathetic, sex starved human being. I don't understand how men staying married for years and not have sex with their wives

As usual I let them know in advance that I'm looking for a sugar daddy so we met up and he gave me some money and he was very happy. Didn't even last long and basically spent the whole time rubbing me down. He ended up leaving early because somehow he felt guilty even though his back story is that his wife discovered she's a lesbian and currently has a girlfriend but they are staying together for their son. He seemed so naïve and kind of dumb for an older man. I guess age has nothing to do with wisdom. He was very sad and somewhat lost. In any case we ended up talking for most of the time and he said something that I thought was funny. He told me that while we were chatting online, he felt like I was trained in communication LOL. (For some reason, most people always think that I am too good to be true, when I chat with them online). He was very complimentary and very taken by me. He was also very nervous which for the life of me I could not understand why.

I left him and went straight to my acting class - sidebar: I have been taking acting classes if I hadn't mentioned it before. We were shooting a scene today which was pretty exciting. 

I had also been chatting with this comedian earlier in the morning, who wanted to see me as a client. He was very peculiar but funny. He was in town to do a gig for a corporate event. So I saw him afterwards. He insisted on meeting me for a drink. I guess he wanted to make sure I was real even though he had went online to read my reviews. Anywho, for a paid comedian he sure seemed broke because he was whining about my price which is pretty standard for any high-end escort. I rocked his world of course and he told me how awesome I was which I already know. I just need a billionaire to see that and snatch me up LOL. 

As usual, any day that I make money is a good day. Things have not been as busy in paradise so I've been a little bit bored lately, but I'm very thankful to have a life of leisure. Not very many people can afford to do that and for that I am very grateful.

Counting down the days till the end of my lease....

Feeling Good....

Just saw a client, tall and good looking...that's how I like to start my day; making Benjamins, lol.  I also worked a private jet trip out west last week, so I'm making mainstream money as well.  Gotta keeps my options for meeting a wealthy hubby open :-)

I'm meeting with an old friend from high school for dinner tonight.  Happy to see her as she's been such a great friend over the years.

I'm gearing up for a tour up north next month.

I connected with a bloke from Ashley Madison. He agreed to an arrangement, we'll see how it goes.
All in all, I'm just relaxing in paradise and working out.  I played some soccer last night which was a blast.  We had our own mini world cup, lol. Gotta get in trim shape for my dominatrix photo shoot coming up.

I'm just so excited about the future! September is right around the corner.  So excited! Did I mention I am excited? Hahahaha

Till next time...

My last uneventful summer...

How the hell did I end up here again and not in Europe this summer??? I keep saying I will but I've had it.  Having a base is tying me down and forcing me to deal with the responsibilities of having a base.  I want to be able to just GO and not worry about when "I have to get back home".  It's ok, I'm counting down the days! 96 more baby!!! Till my lease is up and I can do as I please.  I don't know why I have been hesitant all this time...oh well, everything has its timing and happens for a reason.  I'm thankful to be living in paradise and to have everything I do.  I'm thankful for all my accomplishments and look forward to accomplishing many more goals.

In any case, I saw a client today who wanted to wrestle.  The thing about this guy though is that he came across as G-A-Y. He was very effeminate and was pretty weak.  The guys that usually want to wrestle me are strong and just want a woman to overpower them.  This guy didn't even feel like he was trying, lol...then talking to him more he says he used to like wearing women's underwear but not anymore...hmmm. Then he told me he had a very low sex drive.  Oh well, I could care less.  No sex and me wrestling you? Sure, why not.  Again don't get me wrong, I love sex but only GOOD SEX, and let's face it.  Most men are not very good at sex, I mean even kissing is a major feat for them, lol.

Well, I'm off to bed.  I'll be dreaming of my billionaire husband and when the time comes for me to pack up and just GO.

You can't quit me...

Once you're hooked, you're hooked!!!

I'm laying in bed this beautiful morning in the Windy City as I wait for my 9AM appointment. 

Yesterday I saw a good regular of mine that always keeps me for few hours so that was nice. The day before I saw a guy who wanted a fetish session where he wanted to lick my armpits. Like I said before, nothing shocks me anymore, lol.

So oldie texted me out of nowhere last night. He texted my escort number just to let me know that he knew I was back in the business. Asking me from for some of his clothes he had left at my place a million years ago. I told him to stop trolling the net for escorts and that I gave all his clothes away. He replied with a blank text. 

I don't know why these men can't just seem to move on! Oh yeah that's right, because I'm the best and they never realize it until I'm gone! Hahaha.

I can't wait to get back to paradise, to my home and my bed. Two more days! So excited :-)

Interesting Turn of Events

Well remember Mr. Scottland, the cheapo from a couple of days ago??? Well he tried to hang out with me again today so I just came out and told him that he needed to be generous and guess what??? He was fine with it.  Said he didn't know the rules, yeah right! Ha! In anycase he's supposed to be flying me back to the UK so we'll see how that goes.

I'm headed back to the States in the morning...so excited! I'm getting home sick now, lol.

So remember Mr. Frenchie? I blogged about him the last time I was here in the UK, Dom Perignon? Yes him...I decided to text him out of the blue to see if he would be interested in "hanging out" again but didn't think much of it since he protested paying last time but still did.  What do ya know??? He wanted to see me.  I went to see him tonight and of course it went well, he was all over me and obsessed.  After we finished fucking, he asked me if "this was my job".  Ha! I told him I didn't like labels and quickly changed the subject.  Told him about my plan to take a year to travel and he loved the idea and told me I was welcome to stay in his place (which is absolutely beautiful) anytime I want as long as I want. I don't know about that since I would still have to work on the side, but I must say I was flattered by the offer.
 I have to say, things are falling into place.  I might not know where I'm going, but I know that I'm going there in STYLE :-)

Next week I'm headed to Montreal to celebrate my birthday with friends...it's no Monaco but I will get there next year once I'm more fluid.  I will miss JDM (a fellow blogger) while I'm there, but something tells me we will connect soon enough.

I'm off to the States in 4 hours!!! Till then....xoxo

My Little Bitch

I just saw a regular client of mine here in the UK.  Yet another fetish hungry client who just wants to worship me and be my little bitch...NO SEX.  Now don't get me wrong, of course I enjoy sex, but only with clients that know what they are doing and we all know there are a select few.
I have to say that I'm loving this genre more and more....so much so that I'm looking forward to my fetish themed shoot when I get back to the states....I'm going to have a dedicated website just for this stuff....this is a big market and I am determined to tap into it.
I'm a naturally dominant woman to weak men (and even strong ones) so it comes naturally to me.  Plus is completely legal in the U.S and I don't have to worry about the stress of extensive screening.

I've decided to take a year to travel the world (working too of course) in the fall.  I will not renew my lease...I'm just going to float from place to place all over the US and the world! I won't have anything holding me back and I can just make decisions based on how I feel.  I'm excited as I feel that this is the only way I can truly enjoy and explore Europe.  Plus I will discover the gems that are little towns here in the US, for lucrative visits. In addition I believe this will help me grow spiritually and really be in tuned with myself and my intuition.  There are so many things I want to do and I know that being in one place is not going to get me there.  I'm kinda scared but more excited than scared...I have to take this leap of faith...what have I got to lose really?
I'm absolutely consumed by this...it's all I think about...I'm just counting down the days till I'm completely FREE to move about as I please :-)

3 more months to go!

Scottish in the UK...meh

So I've arrived in the UK and I decided meet up with this Scottish guy last night from travel girls.  First guy I've ever met on that site.  I don't know if I like travel girls because it's just filled with your basic horny guys looking for free sex.  I guess pretty much like ANY OTHER SITE OUT THERE, lol.
This guy however, lured me in with his private club membership...it couldn't hurt to check out that scene as I heard it is pretty big here.
It was a nice property with an eclectic group....pretty fun evening and he seemed taken by me, as they all are, but I could tell this one would not the be the "paying" guy.  I'm pretty good at picking them out now based on conversation and listening to key things they say.  I could have gone fishing but I was kinda jet lagged and tired so this was sort of a refreshing change of scenery.  Plus I saw a good client earlier and I had made my quota for the day.
He seemed like a nice guy but he's an energy sucker.  This is a person that lives off your positive energy/vibes and literally feeds off you like a leach until you're just plain spent.

I was so tired that I agreed to have dinner with him today, yikes!!! What the fuck was I thinking?  He wanted to schedule it for later but I made him do it early so I can have time for fishing.  There's no way I'm going to let a non-paying guy take up my Friday evening!  I was actually pretty tired today so I blamed it on the jet lag.  He even commented on how I'm not my energetic self; translation - I need your energy to suck on because I'm a boring piece of shit without it.
I was actually kinda turned off by him because I mentioned that I needed a coat last night (I didn't anticipate it being as cold as it is in the UK and I didn't think to bring a jacket with me to the middle east and since I came straight from there....you get the point).  This afternoon he messaged me asking if I made it to the store to get it yet, as if to say "I'll get it for you".  But did he??? Hell no.  He even had the nerve to ask me to send him pictures! Ha! I swear it's the cheap ones that are always asking you for THE WORLD.  I properly declined him of course telling him that privilege is for someone that I am in a relationship with.  Translation: No money, No pictures!
From my experiences, I've found that guys are either generous or THEY ARE NOT.  You cannot force them to be generous with you.  There are certain things you can say to bait a generous man, and if he is truly a gentleman, he will bite!
He even told me he wanted me to join him on a business trip to Scotland where he is from.  I again baited him with the "I really have to be careful about my expenses" line, and to that he responded "I will even buy your ticket".  Are you fucking kidding me??? He honestly thought I would pay for my own ticket to spend time with him? Ha!  Game, set, match! WE ARE DONE HERE.

In any case, after dinner we decided to walk down this street with several shops to see if we could find a coat.  This was his suggestion so I thought he was generous after all (I was wrong).  I told him I wanted something reasonably priced (again baiting him to show that I am sensible) since I have plenty of coats at home and didn't want to be wasteful.  He suggested we go into several stores but didn't offer to buy me anything.  At this point I was completely turned off and it showed.  I told him I was ready to go home.  He even mentioned in the taxi that I seemed colder today towards him (dumb ass, it's because you are not generous!!!).  I blamed it on the jet lag of course; I got home and bid him good bye.  He told me he really wanted to see me again, but that's not going to happen.  Not unless he pays up.  And if he messages me, I just might tell him to pay me, lol.
Sometimes it's situations like these that make me just want to be straight up with men and ask them to pay me, but there is a certain song and dance you do when you meet guys on one of these "dating" sites.  Most of them are posers and just looking for young/dumb girls to give them free pussy...thank God I'm not a fool.

I'm going to sleep this off because I definitely need to go fishing later.  I already have my spot picked out as I was successful the last time I was there....nite nite

Tomorrow I have a regular of mine coming to see me and I'm still going fishing!

Liaison with a proper Madame???

I've always wanted to work for the top (or one of the top) Madames in the world.  Could I have found her?

First let's get an update on how things are going in the middle east.
Mr. Algeria and I have completely cooled off.  He was supposed to grab my luggage, which had been broken in transit, to get it fixed.  He seemed eager to do it initially but for some reason, he has gone cold.  Perhaps because I didn't sleep with him? Or because he knows he cannot afford me? Either way I'm not one to chase men so he's just going to get ignored.

Mr. Kuwait messaged me saying he was planning on stopping by on his way from Manila and desperately wanted to see me.  I blew him off telling him I had an event to attend.  Since he's not into paying for my time, why should I grace him with my presence? When will these men learn? He's clearly not my type of guy anyway so he can spend time with his cheap self ALONE.
The guy that had invited me to London turned out to be a bragging cocky dumbass, so I told him off as well.  I was planning on going to London anyways.  I can't wait till next week when I do!  My birthday is coming up and I hope to spend it in Monaco if I can help it.

Ms. Attention has gotten on my last nerves.  She seems to want my attention none stop like a child, she constantly cuts me off when I'm talking.  It's like a competition with her and I have no time that.  She even goes as far as critiquing me for things that SHE'S ACTUALLY DOING HERSELF.  Talk about projecting!  She wants me to be "on" like she always is.  That's just not my personality.  It makes you seem too desperate.  I get plenty of men just fine with my relaxed personality.  I've accepted her for who she is, but she's refusing to return the favor.  I'm just going to ignore her for now because I just don't have the energy or time for it.  Maybe she'll change her tone but I don't really care.

I saw one of my regulars today so it was a lucrative day after all.  I've spend the rest of the day gathering up fetish/bdsm clothing for a fantastic shoot when I get back to the States.  It seems that I have to tap into this "Mistress" genre as men are willing to pay more to be abused, lol.  I'm going to dedicate a whole website to it.  I'm creating a whole new identity; I won't mix the two.  Just to see the type of feedback I will get.  I've always been curious about this type of work so this should be fun and exciting!

Ok so back to the Madame, I got an introduction through a friend of a friend.  Turns out she's established all over the world.  She has clients all through the Middle East, London, Monaco, St. Tropez, Miami, Vegas, & New York.  Music to my ears, but I was still skeptical because I know I don't get along with "agencies".  Why you ask? Because most of these small minded fools seem to be under the impression that because of my "ethnicity" I won't book jobs with their "white" clientele.  Ha!  Practically ALL of my clients (apart from the ones in the Middle East) are WHITE.
This Madame however, seemed very excited about me.  She looked bored while she was interviewing the other girls including Ms. Attention, but when it came to me, her eyes lit up and she called me "special",  (turns out she was married to an African man, lol).

The interview went well but that didn't mean anything to me until she sent me work.  Well last night, she did (less than 1 week after the interview).  It was a big fish too.  He was willing to pay triple the rate because of my "fetish" persona and toys, lol.  He lasted literally 8 minutes! And he tipped me on top of my awesome pay.  I can't be mad at that.  She even wanted to send me to another job right after but the impatient bloke wasn't willing to wait.
I met up with her today to give her the commission and we chatted for a while.  I'm headed to London when I leave here; she even has housing for the girls and I'm hoping I get even more clients while I'm there.  I got my own place for a few days though and we'll see how it goes. I already have 2 advance booking by myself (one regular and one new bloke).  I have ads up in Norway and I plan on putting one up in Monaco to see the response.
Things are looking up.  Hopefully this wasn't a one-hit wonder with Madame. I can't wait to see where this relationship will lead!

Men wish to be under my feet....

I did a Dom session last night.  This guy was actually good looking, from Jordan.  He kissed my feet and licked them like he was starved.  He also wanted me to trample him and really hurt his penis.  Men have all kinds of ways they love to be turned on.  I slapped it, twisted it, bent it, etc.  He cried in sweet ecstasy.  I think I'm going to create a "Mistress" persona in addition to being an escort.  It seems I am suited for this sort of thing.  The men keep requesting it and who am I to deny them the domination they so deeply desire from me??? Hahahaha.

Tonight is my last night here before I head back to the bubbling city. I am going to check out the "Sex and the City" hotel tonight.  I should at least do something touristy while I'm here.  Tomorrow afternoon on my way back, I just might stop and take pictures of the mosque that everyone keeps gushing about.

I kinda had to cool it with Mr. Algeria because he told me the dumbest lie.  We were supposed to go boating and to the Blue Marlin on Friday.  I didn't hear from him till Sunday and his excuse? "Oh I left my phone in a friend's car and he drove it to another town 1.5 hours away"...hahahaha seriously??? I guess I look really young and dumb.  In any case, it worked out for me anyway because I really didn't feel like explaining my whereabouts to him while I'm here.  I will contact him once I'm back in the big city.  He's not even boyfriend material, just someone to know whenever I'm in town that will take me out.  I'm sure he has a complete family somewhere else, but hey nothing shocks me anymore.

Travel the world, meet all facets of people

So I'm having a pretty good time in the Middle East.  I brought a fellow courtesan to work but alas things started off slow and she left in 6 days!  My other collegue from the U.K is here with me, but she's so "on" all the time about fishing, I don't really care to spend too much time with her as it draws way too much attention to us and this is a place where one needs to be discrete.

I have been on this travel website to meet regular people when I am in different places as I do travel a bit.  Of course, I get contacted by mostly men who want to get into my panties, lol. To me, they are all clients but they don't know it yet.  I am yet to find a man that has blown me away like Richard did.  I know he's out there and it will take time to meet him, but I am very patient.  So far I've already been offered trips (with the intention of sleeping with me of course) to London, Cannes, and Monaco.  I hope everything pans out as I wish to be in Europe for my birthday. It would be great if it was ALL EXPENSES PAID!!! Hahahaha.
I went out with a bloke from Kuwait.  He picked me up and took me to dinner.  The conversation flowed nicely, so much so that he was having a wonderful time with me and did not want the night to end.  So we went to a bar in the hotel and had some more drinks.  Some how the topic of "working girls" came up.  He told me that there were plenty of places to find them where we were.  I pretended like I knew nothing of what he was talking about, lol.  Then he mentioned that he tried it before and it wasn't for him.  He didn't like paying for a woman's time.  Whenever a man tells me this, I lose all interest, lol.  I can't stand men that want you to give them your time for nothing in return.  In any case, we stayed till the bar closed and he took me home.  He was smitten with me.  I thanked him for dinner, hugged him, and politely went upstairs to my apartment, and he went home with blue balls.  Ha! Maybe next time he'd want to consider being more generous.  Especially with a woman he knows he might not see again!

I saw a German gentleman yesterday who wanted a golden shower, easy enough.  Then I met up with some other friends in the industry for drinks and Ladies night.  I was informed about a town nearby that is supposed to be lucrative for work so I am driving over with another lady to check it out at the end of this week.  A couple of bottles of wine later, I head over to my U.K colleague (we will call her Ms. Attention), as she had secured some money for us and another friend we met while we were here last.  A sheikh and his friends basically paid us to party with them at a club.  They had a table with unlimited Dom P flowing.  It was very easy money...at least Ms. Attention is good for something, lol.

I slept all day today with a hangover, lol.  When I woke up I got a message from a gentleman I had been in communication with from the travel website.  We will call him Mr. Algeria.  He had messaged me about going boating but I was asleep.  We made plans to have dinner and he sent a car for me which was impressive.  He introduced me to one of his good friends and his girlfriend.  I had a drink with him until his friend left and then we went to dinner.  Conversation flowed nicely and you could tell he was smitten with me, what can I say?
He is well connected it seems and would be a good one to keep around for those purposes, but I'm definitely not sleeping with him anytime soon.  After dinner, we went to grab drinks at the bar and then ended up at his place which was next door to the hotel.  Presumptuous move on his part to think anything would happen.  His place was quite messy and not as I'm accustomed to.  He's clearly friends with the rich, but not quite there himself.  At least he could keep his place tidy!  He kept trying to cuddle and kiss and I decided it was time to go home.  I was a bit turned off by his place to be honest. I thanked him for dinner and texted him when I got home as he requested.

I actually had a client coming to see me.  Perfect ending to my night when I make money! lol.  Canadian guy that lived and worked in Saudi.  He was pretty normal and easy enough.  I've taken a shower and I am ready for bed.

Now I need another phone as I cannot give my "working" number to the squares I meet here, lol.
I'm definitely having a good time meeting new people here and cannot wait to see where it leads.

Till next time....

Strip Strip Hooray!

Well, I went to Key West this past weekend with some friends to check out the scene there for work (Escorting/Stripping)...Apparently, they have quite a few whore houses there, so I didn't really see many clients.  I did however end up stripping...I have to say it was pretty fun and busy but I know why I don't do it often, lol.  A lot of work and I can make what I made in one night in one session!
I woke up sore this morning, but I guess it was a good workout.  I have a massage appointment later thank God!
I'm excited for my upcoming trip back to the middle east....till next time xoxo

Sping Awakening

Well, it's officially April 1st which means SPRING!!!!
 I just finished enjoying WMC in Miami. I went back to the middle east for a week prior to that which was lucrative as usual. I've decided to travel for at least a year once my lease is up 5.5 months. I want to see it all! Having a base only ties me down financially. I already have the itinerary planned and I am excited.
There still isn't a major sugar daddy in my life, I've had no patience lately with the games and bullshit. I've been pretty content reflecting and planning my travels, spending time with friends as I see fit and just enjoying the beautiful thing called life.
I'm gearing up for another extended trip back to the Middle East, as it seems to be the only place at the moment that is giving me with I needed financially 😄

Stay tuned...

Domme/GFE

So it just so happens that I got two clients today requesting the same type of session: Domme/Gfe.  Basically, they want some kink but want me to still be warm and nice to them, lol.
The first guy wanted me to choke him.  I had him in a sleeper hold a couple of times and he actually went limp and I quickly let go.  Then he started almost mini-convulsing but came to quickly.  I was worried the first time because he's a big guy (6'4) and there's no way I could carry his ass, lol.  He stressed to me how much he loved it the first time, which was why I did it the 2nd time. He left with a big smile on his face which is what I look for.

The 2nd guy wanted an ass worship session, which is one of my favorites.  I basically spent the session sitting on his face (almost to the point of suffocation), letting him breathe here and there.  All in all, today was a pretty good day.

I head over to NJ tomorrow for super bowl weekend.  This is going to be a mix of business and pleasure for me as I have friends in town with access to all the VIP parties.
Apparently this is an extremely busy time, as there is an influx of people from all over who come to town for the event.  I even read that strippers fly in just to work during the event (I should have thought of that, lol. But stripping is way too much work).  So I hope to be very busy :-)

Till next time...

US Tour

Sometimes I feel like an artist with my extensive tour across the U.S and the world, lol.  I am currently up north where it is freezing! I just wrapped yet another fetish wrestling session.  I'm not sure what it is about me that makes guys want me to wrestle and subdue them, lol.
In any case, my tour is off to a good start.  I have so many goals that I wish to accomplish this year.  I am super excited :-)
Hopefully I land a good/stable sugar daddy.  They have been all over the place for the past couple of years.  Maybe I've just been too focused on myself which is not a bad thing.  The key here is BALANCE.

Carpe Diem

Saw a very young client today, 19-year-old German man! I don't think I've ever seen anyone this young but he was very mature for his age. As most men from countries outside the US are.

Very excited young man, but all in all it was a pretty smooth session.

I start my US tour tomorrow bright and early, trying out new cities and some old ones. One of my goals this year is to maximize my potential in the US market. Till next time, XOXO

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! 2014

Wow! Time flies huh? I just saw my first client of the new year.  The guy is here on vacation with his wife and found a small window to get away, lol. He was in such a rush which I didn't mind at all.  I got paid and he left, quick and easy.
In anycase, I'm gearing up for my tour starting in a week.  I'm also doing my research now on Europe for I plan on visiting a new place there for my birthday.
Cheers to a great 2014!!!