Showing posts with label ebony sugar baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ebony sugar baby. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 7, 2016

End of 2016

It's getting harder and harder to blog due to me being so busy, but I've told myself that I will do it no matter what. Even if I don't do as many a year, I still plan on doing it.

So I spent the end of my summer and most of my fall in the land down under and Asia and had a fantastic and lucrative time! I am now officially an aunt and I released a book.
However there's still more to do. I'm certainly striving to stay on track and positive but I have my days. I have some old wanna be sugar daddies playing stupid games but I'm definitely doing a clean sweep this year. Not sure if I'm going to change my number or just block them. We'll see how it goes.
I did have a really generous client in Oz and I'm working on him spending some more. It's funny because clients seem to be doing a whole lot better in the spoiling department than the so called SD's.
I've been doing a lot of studying of real estate investing and plan on acquiring investment properties again starting in 2017.  I swear I have so many goals but I'm setting myself up financially no matter what. It would be nice if I have a steady mentor/sd to help but I'm not going to let that hinder me. I will keep blazing through until someone stops me in my tracks like Richard did.
It's funny, I feel like I'm practically 100% back to my ruthless independent self before I met Richard. I've decided that I am going to SAVE MYSELF; not like I was waiting on anyone but I did have more patience, and now that has ran out.
I feel like I will get what I need in a man by being this way anyway, that's how I met Richard. I'm tired of being told by SD's to compromise because it hasn't worked long-term and that's the only way I think.

Anyway, here's a big THANK YOU for all the successes in 2016 and a big welcome to 2017 and more successes it brings.

Here here...

Monday, March 14, 2016

Road Trip Conclusion

My road trip proved to be a successful one and I am thrilled.  Everything seems to be on the right track for me financially. I hope this year keeps going like this because it would mean that I will be buying my house sooner and paying off all of my debt. Goals baby!

I met an older gentleman on the 2nd day of my tour that practically accounted for half of my entire earnings! Peculiar but nice guy that wanted to drink my pee and paid me $100 for every 5oz and you bet I made quite a bit because I do pee a lot.  So I ended up making a few thousand bucks in addition to my fee for my time.  He also liked nipple play so I had some nice clamps to bring him to ecstasy.
The next day he took me shopping and had me fill up 2 sports water bottles with my pee so he could have them with his sandwich for lunch.  He didn't quite finish them but he paid me for the amount I brought plus I did some damage shopping at my favorite designer stores.  I definitely hope I see him again because he's probably one of the easiest and most generous clients I've had.

The rest of the tour was pretty normal and I discovered a few hidden gems so it was also great market research.  We did a few threesomes and I did my fair share of fucking guys in the ass with my strap on, lol. But for the most part, the men were boring.  I guess they were just happy to be with two beautiful women that they didn't expect to do much. The probably didn't know how.
I am now at home, at my mom's relaxing before I head back on the road again. Headed overseas this time (Europe & the Middle East) ;-)

Love, Light, and Prosperity!

Monday, February 8, 2016

New Year! 2016

January has already come and gone and let me just say that my new year started off with a bang!
I ended up in Tel Aviv on New Year's day working a private plane gig.

Then I went to go visit Benjamin and linked up with a potential (Richard).  He turned out to be just another needy energy sucker who was "too scared" to invest in the relationship because he had been burned in the past.  I did get my beats wireless headphones and Chanel perfume that I wanted from him plus he had a car take me to the airport.  But I had to cut my ties because I just can't be with a man that isn't generous.  I'm sure he will be back, but for now I have bigger fish to fry!

I'm winding down from a 3 week winter tour in the North East and it has been quite lucrative.  Then in a couple of weeks I'm embarking on a road trip tour with another escort colleague.  That should be fun, lol.

All in all, I am setting goals and excited to keep checking every one of them off my list.  The world is my oyster.  Stay tuned...

Sunday, December 13, 2015

Holiday Season 2015

So much has happened and I have been too busy to post but here I am.  I am back in the Big Apple, surprise surprise ;-)
I also launched my full dominatrix persona and website and had my first overnight booking tonight! I was concerned that I would be bored but I handled it like a champ.  I did my research on certain things to brush up on my demeanor and my client was all too happy. Working class guy with a bit of a kinky side.
I can't wait to have the billionaire sub, now that would be some fun!
We did a few things including strap on play, nipple play, spanking, boot/feet worship, etc, which he seemed to like a lot.  All in all, I would say it went great. He is already looking to book me again.
I've been getting quite a few dominatrix booking enquiries so I'm pretty happy I branched out to the dark side.
Of course I'm also busy on the escort side and even went on a couple of Tinder dates which reminded me why men pay me to spend time with them, lol.  These men are all clients in my book because they act just like them.  Very needy and too much drama.  I rather to just have someone pay me for my time.

I am working on a guy (as a sugar daddy) I met a few months ago though.  He claims he likes me a lot and wants to travel the world with me.  But let's see where he puts his money.  So far he's shown the signs of generosity but I didn't even try before.  Now I'm going to put him to the test.

Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Wind down of Summer 2015

I'm currently on a NE tour this summer and I am quickly realizing that these parts are much better in the winter/spring, yikes! I guess I will just have to brave the cold and come here a few times in the year.

In any case, I have decided to extend my nomad life by one more year before moving to California.  I'm loving it way too much and I am thankful to be able to be in the position to do so.  I'm chatting with some bloke off MM now and as usual he's all about the intimacy and has not yet inquired about my life and what I want.  Typical…oh well, we will see how it goes. I might use him to fund some trips for me.

Not much has happened this summer, just more discovery of where to tour in the summer.  This has definitely been a learning experience and I am glad for it because it makes my touring that much more efficient.

I went out last night to the bar at the Four Seasons, met a gentleman who definitely gave me a "client vibe", I gave him my number and he hasn't called so I know he's definitely a client.  I suppose I could have prepositioned him (because he was smitten by me) but I'm all about "Time & Place". I drank a lot so today has been sluggish, lol.  I already ate lunch and I think I will take a nap now.

Till next time...

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Summer in the Big Apple 2015!!!

So I made it to the Big Apple for one month this summer.  So much has happened this year and I haven't had time to blog, but I'm still happily being a nomad and traveling the world.  I did go to Monaco with the escort I met last halloween and she turned to be a selfish person so I had to let her go. I did have a blast there though, my birthday there was amazing! I also went to Paris for the 1st time for just 2 nights but still had a blast.  We met a guy in Monaco that invited us to his friend's mega yacht and tried to impress me with it.  Of course I wasn't impressed and he got mad, lol.  I think I'm going to just focus on ME for a WHILE and let men be "over there".  When the right one comes along, I will know.  I don't want  to become jaded and end up losing my excitement about great guys.

I will be going back to the middle east soon with a new friend I just made.  She is also from Ethiopia like me and we seem to have a lot in common.  Let's hope she's not selfish and a good person because it would be nice to travel with someone on the same page as I am.
I have to say that this experience and been lesson filled and I have NO regrets.  I can't wait to get to the land down under and also get started in Hollywood baby!!!
I will fill you in as time goes on, because I have so many goals and I am enjoying the journey.
As of right now, I don't have any sugar daddies which has been very cool in a way.  I love making my own money and not having to ask anyone for anything.  I will hold out for the BIG fish which I know is right around the corner.

I am loving the Big Apple, it has been lucrative and fun-filled.

Till next time...

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Old Men and their fetishes...

I decided to go out in Palm Beach Island last night and my first stop was the very popular Buccan.  I went to the bar as soon as I walked in and asked for a wine list.  To my surprise, and older man approached me as asked "so what are you going to have?". I was quite taken back as most men are afraid to approach me, especially the older ones.  This guy was quite the gentleman.  An attorney who lived on the island and was buying me drinks? I decided to explore further.  Of course he was reveling in my upbeat energy while adding nothing back.  I've noticed that men of means tend to be a lot more upbeat, especially when they meet a woman…I started to have my doubts.  He suggested we get out of there and go to HMF at the breakers which was quieter (I think he just didn't want me to get snatched up by anyone else, lol) and I obliged because I wanted to see what he drove.  Alas it was a Ford Explorer! I gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe he was the "green" type.  He ordered a bottle of champagne at the breakers which got me thinking he might be ok.  Then when the bottle was empty, he suggested that we go back to his place for some more. I went along because I wanted to see what his house looked like so that I could make a better judgement call about him.  Alas, he house was small and old! Infact, he just sold it to someone that is planning on tearing it down while he moves AWAY from the island to a townhouse in a not so great area.  Plus it was poorly decorate and looked cheap on the inside. That was it for me.  He has some money, but he's not fun enough for me to not care that he doesn't have enough money.  I told him I had to leave right away and he was wondering why the rush.  I told him because it was late, but really I had made my judgement call.  He tried to steal a kiss but of course he knows he has to earn that. He must have been thinking he hit the jackpot and I would sleep with him, ha! I thought maybe I should have propositioned him, but I just wasn't feeling it. I went out downtown and hung out with some friends till late.
Of course he's been texting me since this morning trying to hang out tonight and tomorrow but I just can't get myself to waste my precious time and energy with this old man who will probably take ages to be worked on.  Perhaps if I still lived here, I would have put him on my roster but I don't, so I won't.  We will see.

On a side note, I got a call from my BDSM advert.  An older man with foot fetish.  He basically worshipped my feet and ass and we finished him off with a foot job.  Quick and easy! I much rather have a straight forward approach, but I know I have to play the game in order to score my BIG fish!

Here's to playing the game to WIN!

Monday, November 10, 2014

The life of a nomad

So I left Vegas and I'm back in Paradise for a little bit and I just saw a client.  Things seem to be busier (much busier than when I lived here full-time), one client even brought me some presents and Godiva chocolate yesterday.  Things are great! Although it had me thinking where the hell these clients were when I actually lived here, lol.  I guess the saying is true that people miss you when you are not readily available.
I actually met some girls who are escorts as well.  They were actually cool, normal people unlike some of the flakes and shady girls (both squares and escorts) I've met.  It was refreshing to meet nice fun girls.  We actually hung out in Vegas and since I've been back, I've gone out again with one of them. It definitely is great to find someone on the same page as you. She understands how to read a guy and knows that if it's not about the money, there will be no interest.  You would be surprised how hard it is to explain this to a square girl, lol.
I went out with a square girlfriend last night and it was great catching up. She's actually one of the squares that gets the sugar baby lifestyle, but of course I don't tell her all of my business.
I have to say that being "homeless" is definitely working out for me.  It's so great to just pick up and go without having to worry about tending to your "home affairs".  I love it! I can't wait for more adventures…I'm headed to London, Germany, & Norway soon.

I will try to blog more about my adventures…life just gets so busy and fun sometimes that I forget to blog.  I will do better.

Till next time...

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Split Personality or Alcoholic???

One of the reasons Richard and I didn't work out is because he was an alcoholic. Now I love a nice cocktail just as much as the next guy, but when Richard drank in excess he turned into a wicked and verbally abusive person. Luckily I'm not a weak woman or he would have broken me. I could very much give back what he dished out and then some, but why would I want to be around that? I rather be with a fun loving and charming gentleman, but I digress.

So last night I decided to be social and go out clubbing with some acquaintances. What I thought was gonna be a chill night turned into a whirl wind of champagne and shots that lasted into 7:30 this morning! I had an appointment with one of my regulars in the late afternoon but it was a struggle to get out of bed because I was HUNGOVER! I was a little late but made it to him in one piece. This guy owns a restaurant in one of the popular locations in town. He also has a foot fetish and he likes for my toenails to be orange. We played and then he wanted to take me to dinner at his restaurant. We had a great time and he was really getting off on showing me off...typical men. He even asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. I told him he would have to pay me of course which he was ok with. Most men always try to sell you on the trip being your pay, ha!

Things however took a turn as he got drunker. I noticed he was needy and wanted me to "ooh and ah" over his stories and  I could see he was getting frustrated. He's one of those guys that says "you decide", but turns around and makes the decision anyway. I wasn't charging him for my time because he was pretty cool (or so I thought lol), and I wished I had at the end of the evening.  On our way back to his house from dinner, he asked me a question and I gave him a sort of smart ass answer as I normally would and he lost it! He started some bullshit argument, got really angry and even started cursing at me. At that point I knew it was time to go. I personally think he was upset because I didn't want to spend the night (without getting paid) and this was his way of lashing out. I tried to grab my take out on my way out the door, but he wouldn't let me. He really wanted a fight. He even tried to capture my "attitude" on his camera phone, but when he watches it in the morning, he will see that he ended up capturing himself being a complete jackass.

I left immediately and of course, I get a text from him asking me to come back and grab my food. There was no way in the hell I was going back there. He was incoherent and out of his fucking mind. I even saw hints of how he could be an abusive person if someone really pushed him. It reminded me of a huge fight Richard and I had in Turks & Caicos and it really turned me off and I got the hell out of there; the same thing I did with Richard. 
Mr. bi-polar (his new nickname) even said that he still wanted to take me to the Bahamas, ha! I don't know that I want to put myself in that situation with me being in a foreign country with a mean drunk!
I told him we should get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow. No way José🚫
He's going to have to do some serious convincing to get me to even consider going to the Bahamas with him.

Monday, July 21, 2014

A bouquet of flowers

So I get a call from my front desk today telling me that I had a flower delivery....who sent it you ask? My client from the "threesome gone wrong". Inside was a note apologizing for wasting my time and thanking me for being understanding. Cute, but I would have much rather prefered cash. Well I guess he's hooked because he said he would be seeing me soon. Something tells me it's gonna be before the week runs out, lol. I texted him to thank him for being sweet and thoughtful. I don't know why men are so infatuated with sex, but it's definitely to the advantage of women everywhere.
I spent some time in the ocean today. It was much needed and very relaxing. I live on the beach but don't spend much time enjoying it. I do run on the beach though so I do enjoy the view very often. I will make it a point to spend my last days in paradise enjoying it before I embark on my "World Tour". The time is drawing near.
I have a potential client tomorrow....let's hope it pans out. Nite all

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Threesome Gone Wrong

Well today turned out to be sort of a busy day for me, which is rare in my home base.
A regular of mine asked me if I would do a threesome with him and his girlfriend and of course I said yes.  He told me he would ask her and get back to me.  Shortly after, he lets me know that it is a "go".  We set up a time and I proceeded to get ready. He even told me to dress very well and sexy (which I already knew to do).
They arrive and I greet them happily at the door.  Right away I sensed something was off because the girlfriend was not happy.  I sat them down and offered them water.  Then after a moment of awkward looks, I asked how everyone was doing and if everything was ok, to which the girlfriend said "no".  Whoops! RED FLAG!
She said she had told him she wasn't into it and that she would just wait if he wanted to still go ahead with me.  I knew better than to even let that happen.  I complimented her, telling her she was beautiful and that we didn't have to do anything if she wasn't comfortable.  To which she mentioned "yeah apparently I'm not enough for him". Yikes! I hope he didn't think I was going to convince her against her will!
I even offered up some wine, to which she declined.  Then I knew for sure NOTHING was happening.  It was very awkward, and my regular sat there looking puzzled and gulping his water.  They eventually left.  I texted right away letting him have it for not checking with his girlfriend first and wasting my time.  He apologized profusely citing that he was very excited and everything happened so fast.  I told him never to EVER do that again without making sure his significant other was ok with it.
I've never done a threesome where the woman wasn't on board.  Everyone knows the woman runs the show in these situations, but my client apparently was too stupid to figure it out.  He made it seem like they had done it before but from the looks of the girlfriend, they certainly hadn't.  Maybe they went to a swinger's club, but it didn't look like they had any experience with threesomes.

In any case, luckily I had another client coming by shortly after.  New client, very excited and paranoid at the same time.  It was very quick and easy and he left very happy.
Nothing shocks me anymore...men are so obsessed with sex, it's quite comical actually.  I just need to find an extremely wealthy one that's obsessed with me! I know it will happen soon...I'm just going to focus on my other goals while I wait.

I learned a new editing technique on photoshop that I'm quite happy about.  I'll definitely save some money on having someone else do it for me ;-)

On a different note, I was chatting with this bloke from Seeking Arrangement last night, and the dumb ass thought I would drive almost 45 minutes at 1am to meet him for sex if he paid me, ha! Chances are if he wasn't calling an escort, it's because he couldn't afford one.  Which makes him a cheap ass! Things like that will never end well.  Last minute, nothing discussed, plus he could be the next craigslist killer, lol.  I told him no and went to bed.  These guys  think that lying about their net worth will make girls do ANYTHING.  I wasn't born yesterday.  Maybe it works on some other girls, but at this point in my life I can smell money a mile away.  I know what it talks and acts like; and this guy was talking & acting like a cheap pervert.  Maybe on a slight chance I was wrong, but even if I was I wouldn't want a creep like that anyway.  NEXT!!!

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

I wasn't born yesterday...

So this guy I met while I stripped breifly in Palm Beach a few years ago,  just took me out to dinner tonight. He's cheap even though he has money, but I contacted him all the same because it is not as busy in this new city (I won't be coming here again), and I figured I could pry some money out of him and get a nice meal. It still has been a lucrative trip though. He thinks I'm here working a private jet trip;  I love the alibi my mainstream work gives me😜
Anyways, when I first met this one, it was quite a feat to let this him know that he had to spoil me even though we met in a strip club and I was a stripper! (It's still a silly song and dance we do and I avoid it at all costs, but since I'm in his city, I figured I might as well). I think he has a different definition of what "spoiling" means (he's 61); but I never let men off the hook, especially older men, because they should know better.
In anycase we had a very nice dinner and he said he wanted to take me shopping but I told him I'd rather have the cash. He said he didn't have any cash on him and would take care of me tomorrow, but he understood if I wanted to wait. I told him I would wait. I've already been down this road before where I assumed he would take care of me and he didn't. So much so that I cursed him out he seriously thought I hated him, lol.
As soon as I said I would wait, he left immediately. He went from talking about how he wanted to make love to me and kiss me, to getting the hell out of my hotel room, lol.
I wasn't born yesterday; he doesn't go to Neiman Marcus asking for credit and he sure as hell will not do that with me! I sent him a text right after thanking him for dinner and saying that I looked forward to seeing him tomorrow. There's a 50/50 chance he will bail, but I could care less. Men think they can use us for our goods and then get upset when we want something in return, ha! It doesn't phase me, I get what I can out of you and toss you aside. I'm only nice to deserving men.
I have a few appointments tomorrow and then I'm headed back home to paradise. Time for bed💤

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Independence day weekend 2014

Well today was unexpectedly busy and lucrative.  I saw a regular of mine and a new client which is always great.  I worked out (working on getting my splits back) and had a pretty nice day. I've pretty much kept to myself indoors and have filled my time with sleeping, eating, working out, and watching TV.  I have a hot shoot coming up and I have to be just so.

I got a call from this match maker I spoke to a couple of days ago.  It's a high end match making agency that claims to have the guy I'm looking for but they want me to shell out $2,500.  I don't know how I feel about that.  Plus my head is not wrapped around dating at the moment...I've switched back to my old self, the one that is focused on financial freedom.  I've decided to work on becoming a millionaire myself until I meet my billionaire. So I don't even think I will be any good, because I plan on traveling non-stop in a couple of months.  I will probably meet my match during my travels.
Besides I don't know that they are THAT good.  If it was a guaranteed, then I would probably be more interested, but I've been burned by a "high end" match making service before. They claim to be great but in the end, they end up catering to where their money is, THE MEN.
I didn't even bother calling her back.  We've already talked on the phone, I don't know why she wants to "talk" some more.  I'm a woman that knows what she wants.  No one needs to persuade me to do anything.

In any case, I'm getting ready for bed as I have a morning flight up north.  I'm touring this week because it is way too quiet and boring in paradise.  Most of the "money" is up north or in Europe which is where I should be!  But I'm not even upset....I have a little over 60 days left and then I'm off being a jet setter :-)

Sunday, May 11, 2014

Interesting Turn of Events

Well remember Mr. Scottland, the cheapo from a couple of days ago??? Well he tried to hang out with me again today so I just came out and told him that he needed to be generous and guess what??? He was fine with it.  Said he didn't know the rules, yeah right! Ha! In anycase he's supposed to be flying me back to the UK so we'll see how that goes.

I'm headed back to the States in the morning...so excited! I'm getting home sick now, lol.

So remember Mr. Frenchie? I blogged about him the last time I was here in the UK, Dom Perignon? Yes him...I decided to text him out of the blue to see if he would be interested in "hanging out" again but didn't think much of it since he protested paying last time but still did.  What do ya know??? He wanted to see me.  I went to see him tonight and of course it went well, he was all over me and obsessed.  After we finished fucking, he asked me if "this was my job".  Ha! I told him I didn't like labels and quickly changed the subject.  Told him about my plan to take a year to travel and he loved the idea and told me I was welcome to stay in his place (which is absolutely beautiful) anytime I want as long as I want. I don't know about that since I would still have to work on the side, but I must say I was flattered by the offer.
 I have to say, things are falling into place.  I might not know where I'm going, but I know that I'm going there in STYLE :-)

Next week I'm headed to Montreal to celebrate my birthday with friends...it's no Monaco but I will get there next year once I'm more fluid.  I will miss JDM (a fellow blogger) while I'm there, but something tells me we will connect soon enough.

I'm off to the States in 4 hours!!! Till then....xoxo

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Men wish to be under my feet....

I did a Dom session last night.  This guy was actually good looking, from Jordan.  He kissed my feet and licked them like he was starved.  He also wanted me to trample him and really hurt his penis.  Men have all kinds of ways they love to be turned on.  I slapped it, twisted it, bent it, etc.  He cried in sweet ecstasy.  I think I'm going to create a "Mistress" persona in addition to being an escort.  It seems I am suited for this sort of thing.  The men keep requesting it and who am I to deny them the domination they so deeply desire from me??? Hahahaha.

Tonight is my last night here before I head back to the bubbling city. I am going to check out the "Sex and the City" hotel tonight.  I should at least do something touristy while I'm here.  Tomorrow afternoon on my way back, I just might stop and take pictures of the mosque that everyone keeps gushing about.

I kinda had to cool it with Mr. Algeria because he told me the dumbest lie.  We were supposed to go boating and to the Blue Marlin on Friday.  I didn't hear from him till Sunday and his excuse? "Oh I left my phone in a friend's car and he drove it to another town 1.5 hours away"...hahahaha seriously??? I guess I look really young and dumb.  In any case, it worked out for me anyway because I really didn't feel like explaining my whereabouts to him while I'm here.  I will contact him once I'm back in the big city.  He's not even boyfriend material, just someone to know whenever I'm in town that will take me out.  I'm sure he has a complete family somewhere else, but hey nothing shocks me anymore.

Monday, April 7, 2014

Strip Strip Hooray!

Well, I went to Key West this past weekend with some friends to check out the scene there for work (Escorting/Stripping)...Apparently, they have quite a few whore houses there, so I didn't really see many clients.  I did however end up stripping...I have to say it was pretty fun and busy but I know why I don't do it often, lol.  A lot of work and I can make what I made in one night in one session!
I woke up sore this morning, but I guess it was a good workout.  I have a massage appointment later thank God!
I'm excited for my upcoming trip back to the middle east....till next time xoxo