Split Personality or Alcoholic???

One of the reasons Richard and I didn't work out is because he was an alcoholic. Now I love a nice cocktail just as much as the next guy, but when Richard drank in excess he turned into a wicked and verbally abusive person. Luckily I'm not a weak woman or he would have broken me. I could very much give back what he dished out and then some, but why would I want to be around that? I rather be with a fun loving and charming gentleman, but I digress.

So last night I decided to be social and go out clubbing with some acquaintances. What I thought was gonna be a chill night turned into a whirl wind of champagne and shots that lasted into 7:30 this morning! I had an appointment with one of my regulars in the late afternoon but it was a struggle to get out of bed because I was HUNGOVER! I was a little late but made it to him in one piece. This guy owns a restaurant in one of the popular locations in town. He also has a foot fetish and he likes for my toenails to be orange. We played and then he wanted to take me to dinner at his restaurant. We had a great time and he was really getting off on showing me off...typical men. He even asked me to go to the Bahamas with him. I told him he would have to pay me of course which he was ok with. Most men always try to sell you on the trip being your pay, ha!

Things however took a turn as he got drunker. I noticed he was needy and wanted me to "ooh and ah" over his stories and  I could see he was getting frustrated. He's one of those guys that says "you decide", but turns around and makes the decision anyway. I wasn't charging him for my time because he was pretty cool (or so I thought lol), and I wished I had at the end of the evening.  On our way back to his house from dinner, he asked me a question and I gave him a sort of smart ass answer as I normally would and he lost it! He started some bullshit argument, got really angry and even started cursing at me. At that point I knew it was time to go. I personally think he was upset because I didn't want to spend the night (without getting paid) and this was his way of lashing out. I tried to grab my take out on my way out the door, but he wouldn't let me. He really wanted a fight. He even tried to capture my "attitude" on his camera phone, but when he watches it in the morning, he will see that he ended up capturing himself being a complete jackass.

I left immediately and of course, I get a text from him asking me to come back and grab my food. There was no way in the hell I was going back there. He was incoherent and out of his fucking mind. I even saw hints of how he could be an abusive person if someone really pushed him. It reminded me of a huge fight Richard and I had in Turks & Caicos and it really turned me off and I got the hell out of there; the same thing I did with Richard. 

Mr. bi-polar (his new nickname) even said that he still wanted to take me to the Bahamas, ha! I don't know that I want to put myself in that situation with me being in a foreign country with a mean drunk!

I told him we should get some sleep and talk about it tomorrow. No way José🚫

He's going to have to do some serious convincing to get me to even consider going to the Bahamas with him.

A bouquet of flowers

So I get a call from my front desk today telling me that I had a flower delivery....who sent it you ask? My client from the "threesome gone wrong". Inside was a note apologizing for wasting my time and thanking me for being understanding. Cute, but I would have much rather prefered cash. Well I guess he's hooked because he said he would be seeing me soon. Something tells me it's gonna be before the week runs out, lol. I texted him to thank him for being sweet and thoughtful. I don't know why men are so infatuated with sex, but it's definitely to the advantage of women everywhere.
I spent some time in the ocean today. It was much needed and very relaxing. I live on the beach but don't spend much time enjoying it. I do run on the beach though so I do enjoy the view very often. I will make it a point to spend my last days in paradise enjoying it before I embark on my "World Tour". The time is drawing near.
I have a potential client tomorrow....let's hope it pans out. Nite all

Independence day weekend 2014

Well today was unexpectedly busy and lucrative.  I saw a regular of mine and a new client which is always great.  I worked out (working on getting my splits back) and had a pretty nice day. I've pretty much kept to myself indoors and have filled my time with sleeping, eating, working out, and watching TV.  I have a hot shoot coming up and I have to be just so.

I got a call from this match maker I spoke to a couple of days ago.  It's a high end match making agency that claims to have the guy I'm looking for but they want me to shell out $2,500.  I don't know how I feel about that.  Plus my head is not wrapped around dating at the moment...I've switched back to my old self, the one that is focused on financial freedom.  I've decided to work on becoming a millionaire myself until I meet my billionaire. So I don't even think I will be any good, because I plan on traveling non-stop in a couple of months.  I will probably meet my match during my travels.
Besides I don't know that they are THAT good.  If it was a guaranteed, then I would probably be more interested, but I've been burned by a "high end" match making service before. They claim to be great but in the end, they end up catering to where their money is, THE MEN.
I didn't even bother calling her back.  We've already talked on the phone, I don't know why she wants to "talk" some more.  I'm a woman that knows what she wants.  No one needs to persuade me to do anything.

In any case, I'm getting ready for bed as I have a morning flight up north.  I'm touring this week because it is way too quiet and boring in paradise.  Most of the "money" is up north or in Europe which is where I should be!  But I'm not even upset....I have a little over 60 days left and then I'm off being a jet setter :-)

You can't quit me...

Once you're hooked, you're hooked!!!

I'm laying in bed this beautiful morning in the Windy City as I wait for my 9AM appointment. 

Yesterday I saw a good regular of mine that always keeps me for few hours so that was nice. The day before I saw a guy who wanted a fetish session where he wanted to lick my armpits. Like I said before, nothing shocks me anymore, lol.

So oldie texted me out of nowhere last night. He texted my escort number just to let me know that he knew I was back in the business. Asking me from for some of his clothes he had left at my place a million years ago. I told him to stop trolling the net for escorts and that I gave all his clothes away. He replied with a blank text. 

I don't know why these men can't just seem to move on! Oh yeah that's right, because I'm the best and they never realize it until I'm gone! Hahaha.

I can't wait to get back to paradise, to my home and my bed. Two more days! So excited :-)