Demand what you want!

I went out on 2 sugar daddy dates in the same day a couple of days ago.  One for lunch, another for dinner and I was sitting there on both dates, it dawned on me that it is time to stop compromising.  These men were sitting there astonished that they "struck gold" with me.  The whole time was filled with them complimenting me and thanking me for being there.  They were clearing getting something out of the first meeting and I wasn't.  A "free meal" isn't worth it to me.
I tried it the "nice" way and I really haven't gotten the results I want.  The reason why successful people are successful is because they go after what they want full force and never take "no" for an answer, nor do they compromise their goals.  It's good to be flexible in your approach, but you should never change your true goals and desires to match the need of someone else, thinking that it will get you what you want.
The way I see it, if you two are not on the same page MOVE ON IMMEDIATELY. No sense in wasting time with someone who is not willing to give you what you want.  There are plenty of "fish" out there to feel trapped with "one".  It will never be fair if he gets everything he wants and you only get a little bit.  Neither of you will be happy.

I was chatting with some bloke from Ashley Madison today who told me he was ready to be my sugar daddy.  He asked me what I wanted per month and I told him $5,000 just to see where his head was.  He goes on about how that is a lot of money and I better be worth it. That he's not some fat slob, and that girls are lining up to be with him, so I better be negotiable.  I told him $5,000 is not a lot of money and that I wasn't willing to negotiate and ended with a  "good luck with your search".  Ouch! He probably didn't see that one coming.  This is why I never go for guys who are vain.  They are obviously OLD but spend so much time on their looks (which means NO MONEY) and they are disillusioned to thinking girls want them for their looks.  Yeah, desperate girls! When a guy complains right off the bat about what your are asking for being too much, RUN!!! It means that you guys are not on the same page and no amount of compromise will change that.
I'm done being patient with people and going back to my roots of being a bitch and demanding what I want.  That's how I met Richard, so why not???

In any case, of course the two OLD men I went on SD dates with (they lied about their age, lol) would LOVE to see me again, but I have decided that if it doesn't add value to my life, i.e. financial generosity, I will NOT MAKE TIME FOR IT.

I'm excited to be headed to Europe next week…xoxo

Needy clients

Today I had two of my regulars that are needy back to back! Ugh, these are the guys you can only take in doses.  They are nice people but just too needy.
The first guy kept telling me he loved me and how beautiful I am, of course I smile and say thank you, but there's only so many times one can say thank you! He basically does this the whole session.

The second guy is definitely the weird one.  He says he wants a dominatrix but obviously can't handle it because he also wants a girlfriend experience.  I told him he CANNOT mix the two.  He likes me wearing bright color clothing and make up! I mean he had me reapply lip gloss a million times and even had me change the colors.  I mean you would think he was a kid in a candy store the way he kept asking for different colors.  He also wanted me to spit in his mouth and pinch/play with his nipples, he also wanted to rub oil on me to make me "shiny", then he wanted me to talk "dirty"….this type of session gets old after a while, lol. Eventually I just tell him NO.  Then when the time is up, he wants to pay for more time! Of course I say ok, but I told him just a little longer because I was tired, this was a late night session.

I have to say that my trip back to paradise has been very lucrative.  I cannot complain…off to bed now.

xoxo...

Independence day weekend 2014

Well today was unexpectedly busy and lucrative.  I saw a regular of mine and a new client which is always great.  I worked out (working on getting my splits back) and had a pretty nice day. I've pretty much kept to myself indoors and have filled my time with sleeping, eating, working out, and watching TV.  I have a hot shoot coming up and I have to be just so.

I got a call from this match maker I spoke to a couple of days ago.  It's a high end match making agency that claims to have the guy I'm looking for but they want me to shell out $2,500.  I don't know how I feel about that.  Plus my head is not wrapped around dating at the moment...I've switched back to my old self, the one that is focused on financial freedom.  I've decided to work on becoming a millionaire myself until I meet my billionaire. So I don't even think I will be any good, because I plan on traveling non-stop in a couple of months.  I will probably meet my match during my travels.
Besides I don't know that they are THAT good.  If it was a guaranteed, then I would probably be more interested, but I've been burned by a "high end" match making service before. They claim to be great but in the end, they end up catering to where their money is, THE MEN.
I didn't even bother calling her back.  We've already talked on the phone, I don't know why she wants to "talk" some more.  I'm a woman that knows what she wants.  No one needs to persuade me to do anything.

In any case, I'm getting ready for bed as I have a morning flight up north.  I'm touring this week because it is way too quiet and boring in paradise.  Most of the "money" is up north or in Europe which is where I should be!  But I'm not even upset....I have a little over 60 days left and then I'm off being a jet setter :-)

June 16th, 2011

Today was another laid back day. Woke up, made some food for the cast; took some over to the bff for sampling to make sure it wasn't too spicy and also to catch up and tell her my story about oldie. It's always good to catch up with her. Turns out her brother in-law's wife is pissed at her for still hanging out with me, lol...she really needs to get a life. I borrowed some disposable plates and spoons from her and headed over to rehearsal with my spicy seafood coconut rice. The cast loved it (the ones that could handle it lol); rehearsal was kind of tiring but still good. I guess I'm ready for this musical to be over so that I can move on to other things. I'm definitely looking forward to hanging out with dermatologist next weekend. I sent him my account information today so we'll see what happens. Went home, ate, watched tv, went to sleep :-)